[Basil Ransom]

(12-08-2012 04:16 PM)savilerow Wrote:  

I really can't see 6's acting like 9's in LA, when they are constantly surrounded by true 9's in LA. That is known to happen in other places though. DC & SF are big on that.

Call it sorting. If a chick is a 5 in LA, she's not going to get hit on if she waltzes into the hottest clubs. So she'll start talking about how "people who go clubbing are shallow, superficial, materialistic" - and she's not necessarily wrong, but she wouldn't be saying that if she were a 9. Most girls are going to find a niche where they get hit on. That may even be the internet. So LA, probably the entire Anglosphere, is like that to varying extents.

Speakeasy, that was me. I think that's true everywhere, but even more so in LA. Hot girls don't go to the same venues that the masses go to.

Also, because the proportion of white girls is so low, while they are in the most demand, the racial dynamics are not in your favor. It's like if you were throwing a house party, and every male guest brings one girl. If the thirsty guys started bringing busted girls, they'll all start ganging up on the few attractive girls left.

Here's a classic Roissy drawing illustrating this:



So you have that dynamic in LA. There are some subcultures where the girls are either busted, they don't put out so the men look elsewhere, and/or the men are aggressive.

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my impression is that L.A. is full of the most narcissistic people on earth. You will not find a more self absorbed, self-conscious lot.

The dude only started saying this after he met me...

I find hipster and hipster-lite chicks to be your best bet. If you have a strong distinctive personality, they're more open to meeting male strangers than other white girls. There are more cute white girls in richer areas, but they tend to be more insular, with established social circles. Personally, unless the circle/niche has a continual inflow of new girls, I get bored quick. If you can manage to just show up at the house parties, that's clutch. If I'm not invigorated by hanging out with someone, then I can't be friends with them. Most American girls, if I'm not having sex with them, just feel like such a drain of my energy - they always try to make you their personal entertainer. So I rarely want to be friends with them.

Assume every girl is an attention whore until you're having sex. Never count on seeing a girl again. If you don't fuck her the night you meet, or at least finger her, your odds of seeing her again are <20%.

As far as I can tell, money only matters insofar as it gets you in the door. I experimented with telling girls that I'm from a neighborhood that would suggest my family had lots of money, and it didn't elicit much of a response. If I want to, I can pretend to be a trust funder, but it won't help much beyond a little novelty.