Let's say you just met this girl. The conversation is going pretty good.
In the middle of the conversation, she informs you she has kids (or other things that can hinder you dating her)
Would you keep poker face while listening and just move on to next topic or even show some unpleasant face.
OR
Would you try to comfort her by saying it's ok. it's about her not about her past.
I am not a fan of putting women down to make her feel shit about herself. But in this case, I think I should react in 1st way.
I have been doing 2nd way and I haven't had any positive responses.
To them, I can be seen as a person who will take anything.
I was in qualifying position but by saying that, I flipped this power situation.
It's better to keep them insecure about themselves
(there is nothing wrong with it since I am not the one who brought it up.)
Do you agree with this?
In the middle of the conversation, she informs you she has kids (or other things that can hinder you dating her)
Would you keep poker face while listening and just move on to next topic or even show some unpleasant face.
OR
Would you try to comfort her by saying it's ok. it's about her not about her past.
I am not a fan of putting women down to make her feel shit about herself. But in this case, I think I should react in 1st way.
I have been doing 2nd way and I haven't had any positive responses.
To them, I can be seen as a person who will take anything.
I was in qualifying position but by saying that, I flipped this power situation.
It's better to keep them insecure about themselves
(there is nothing wrong with it since I am not the one who brought it up.)
Do you agree with this?