[nmn87]

Hello everybody , I found this forum and decided to pop my question here:

Ok , There's this girl i like very much , but need help understanding her actions and is there some interest on her side...Im 21 y.o. and I havent asked her for age but i think she is like 23-24 (some ppl say its not cool to ask for age xD )
She is a nurse at local hospital and after I had a car accident Im going there for a month now for bandages...
Now the thing is she laughs at all my jokes ( even crapy ones ),she smiles everytime we meet , one time she said "we are now so close, the only thing thats left is to get maried " in joke way ofc , today she tickled me while i was undressing ( lol ! ) , and when I tickled her she smiled...
Now, is it just a damn proffesional courtesy or is there something else, and how to proceed if there is , or how to test if she is interested.

Sory for bad english
Thanks and Cheers

[Trotter]

I think she's just being nice. I've made my fair share of trips to the doctors, hospital, ER, and therapy centers and I think most of the nurses and assistants are just being nice. I've had nurses tickle me, slap me on the rear, joke, wink, the whole nine yards but it's simply profressional courtesy and possibly playful banter on their part to make the most of their day. I compare them to women bartenders and waitresses that probably get hit on ten times more in a day than your typical female. Not to say that if I didn't make a play for some that I wouldn't have scored a couple. Also, don't forget they may have higher value because of their options in doctors and such.

Next time she tickles you or whatever say something like "If you do that again I might get the right idea.", or "I'm gonna have to return the favour." and gauge her reaction. I most likely would have followed her joke with something like "Well usually I like to have drinks first.", or "Not until after the background check."

There's just a plethora of cheesy lines you can throw at her to study her reaction. My only concern is that maybe she's already saturated by the attention from all the visits you've made previously and didn't close in. You're probably just going to have to come right out and state your intention. I would imagine a dialogue of something like this for me:

Me: "So what do nurses do when they're not on duty."
Her: "Oh, I like to do such and such... blah, blah."
Me: "That sounds great. 8 sounds good to you?" <wink>

Of course, with a playful overtone protecting your pride at the same time. She says no then you just come back with "Oh, I was just teasing. Don't think just because you've seen me naked that <fill in the blank>."

That's my style when trying to put game on waitresses and the likes. Sometimes it worked, sometimes it didn't. At the very least the message will be clear and she'll adjust her attitude according to which way she wants to go.

Don't forget body language too. I mean I don't know if you're laying on a table and she's sticking a tube up your butt. Barring that remember to reflect an Alpha tonality and body language.

[nmn87]

wow , thanks man , didnt expect such detailed answer , ill throw something that you sugested and see how it turns out ...

[Trotter]

Yeah, keep us informed because I'd like to know how this turns out for ya. I'm sure some of the other guys will have some tips that might suit your style a bit more.

[broken]

(09-24-2008 10:56 AM)nmn87 Wrote:  

Hello everybody , I found this forum and decided to pop my question here:

Ok , There's this girl i like very much , but need help understanding her actions and is there some interest on her side...Im 21 y.o. and I havent asked her for age but i think she is like 23-24 (some ppl say its not cool to ask for age xD )
She is a nurse at local hospital and after I had a car accident Im going there for a month now for bandages...
Now the thing is she laughs at all my jokes ( even crapy ones ),she smiles everytime we meet , one time she said "we are now so close, the only thing thats left is to get maried " in joke way ofc , today she tickled me while i was undressing ( lol ! ) , and when I tickled her she smiled...
Now, is it just a damn proffesional courtesy or is there something else, and how to proceed if there is , or how to test if she is interested.

Sory for bad english
Thanks and Cheers

Nurses are a lot like "hired guns" - people hired by the businesses to treat customers well.

- bartenders
- cocktail waitresses
- shot girls
- promo models
- "exotic" dancers
- go-go dancers
- regular waitresses

Treat Nurses like hired guns
- great game from the very start - aim is to bring them out of the work mode, and into regular person mode.

- major time investment, i.e. long seduction

It's much much easier to pull a nurse/hired gun when you meet her outside of her work environment.

[Trotter]

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It's much much easier to pull a nurse/hired gun when you meet her outside of her work environment.

Good point. I think that's what he wants to work up towards, but short of stalking her he's going to need an idea to meet her away from that surrounding.

Also, I categorize "exotic" dancers in the DNT pile. Just worthless, they are, imo.

[duncanidaho]

(09-24-2008 04:03 PM)Trotter Wrote:  

Also, I categorize "exotic" dancers in the DNT pile. Just worthless, they are, imo.

Hey Now, "exotic" dancers need love too.
(((Even if one of 'em came at me with a knife because she was horrendously bipolar and I didn't want to see her anymore)))

[nmn87]

haha , i should have ended my visits there yesterday but doc said 2 more weeks , lol good job man ...
anyhow , i was thinking about a joke like " I think you would miss me " and if she says " yea , would u miss me " i say " maybe just a little bit " in playfull tone ...now does this psychology work ,and does it say i like you...
since tomorow is friday i was thinkng trotters line:
Me: "So what do nurses do when they're not on duty."
Her: "Oh, I like to do such and such... blah, blah."
Me: "That sounds great. 8 sounds good to you?" <wink>
i think its low risk and if she is playfull enough she will say yea sure , then i would pop out my phone and say " just write yourself in and ill call you" like its still a joke XD , and then she will realise its not ... what ya ppl think
one more thing , how to ask does she have a boyfriend and how old she is without offending her or being too forward .

Cheers

[Trotter]

If she accepts then the bf part doesn't really matter. If there's sexual tension it shouldn't matter too much of what you say, if she was being nice at least you'll know then. Good luck.

[Chick]

Tickling is something a woman does to a man she considers a boy.

[Chick]

It's insane how much planning men put into getting a woman.

[Trotter]

(09-27-2008 10:23 PM)Chick Wrote:  

Tickling is something a woman does to a man she considers a boy.

That makes sense.

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It's insane how much planning men put into getting a woman.

If you're not used to approaching women then it doesn't hurt to be prepared. Women do it as well just in different ways.

[Roosh]

(09-27-2008 10:24 PM)Chick Wrote:  

It's insane how much planning men put into getting a woman.

More like: "It's insane how much men want to get laid."

The planning is a consequence of a desire