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09-18-2012, 09:15 PM
So I number closed 4 chicks on Sunday night at King's College party, and texted all of them today. Only one of them texted back "Hey sorry, I don't remember you. Where did we meet?" What do I say now? I know betas would be proud to remind her exactly where and how they met.
My text to all four women " Hey WXYZ I bet you had a great time at the party on Sunday night. So are you going out every night of the week or what? - (Alberto exchange student from California)"
If they still can't remember me, then I suppose I should just say to them " I am the guy you slept with on SUnday night"
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09-18-2012, 09:57 PM
thedude's method is good. I've had luck pretending to be a celebrity.
"this is johnny depp."
you can go the RSD elastic snapback effect too:
"wow you were A LOT drunker than i thought. fuck, u were really plastered then"
or combine them:
"this is johnny depp. You must have been a lot more wasted than I thought u were if u dont remember."
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09-18-2012, 09:59 PM
I dislike playing text games so i just straight up tell them.
"Hey this is XY, I met you at Sleazy Bar Sat night, how's it going?"
If I made good impression in person i don't think I lose any points with her for that
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09-18-2012, 10:00 PM
MrXY, you don't play games you come off not only desperate but also as a nice guy.
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09-18-2012, 10:02 PM
Quote: (09-18-2012 10:00 PM)AlbertoDelMuerto Wrote:
MrXY, you don't play games you come off not only desperate but also as a nice guy.
being straightup is fine.
it all depends on the connection you had with her and the amount of time she invested in you during your first interaction.
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09-18-2012, 10:19 PM
Quote: (09-18-2012 10:00 PM)AlbertoDelMuerto Wrote:
MrXY, you don't play games you come off not only desperate but also as a nice guy.
Read my post again-I said "if I made good impression in person"
Since women are constantly calling me a "jerk", and "asshole" and a "player"(and usually smiling when they do so) I'm fairly confident that I don't come across as desperate, needy, or nice.
If you generated attraction during the first meet, you can be matter of fact and logistical in your texts when setting up a date. If your first impression on her was weak and you didn't create attraction, all the text game in the world is not going to save your ass.
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09-19-2012, 09:14 PM
There are some good responses here, although some are a little long. When texting, I keep it to the point, meeting up with the bitch. For your situation, I like this. "How drunk were you?" Whatever you do, don't play into her frame.
Again, if she didn't connect when you met, then this won't salvage the interaction. That's why it's important that when you go out at night, you have only one goal. Get to the hole! By getting penetration, you put yourself ahead of the other potential suitors. A kiss or number won't do it in 2012.
In another five years, you'll have to knock the bitch up just to stop her from flaking.
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09-20-2012, 06:29 AM
Quote: (09-18-2012 09:15 PM)AlbertoDelMuerto Wrote:
So I number closed 4 chicks on Sunday night at King's College party, and texted all of them today. Only one of them texted back "Hey sorry, I don't remember you. Where did we meet?" What do I say now? I know betas would be proud to remind her exactly where and how they met.
My text to all four women " Hey WXYZ I bet you had a great time at the party on Sunday night. So are you going out every night of the week or what? - (Alberto exchange student from California)"
If they still can't remember me, then I suppose I should just say to them " I am the guy you slept with on SUnday night"
You don't want the girls to remember you.
You want them to know that you don't remember them. Like you literally got hammered to shit and went home with eight cheerleaders kind of "don't remember".
Say something like "Have we met?" or "I've forgotten your name". That kind of stuff tends to jog their memory just a bit. Over text something like "I recall getting your phone number, but I know I typed your name wrong. What is it again?"
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09-20-2012, 01:02 PM
I highly disagree with the others in mentioning alcohol.
The one thing I've learned through many flakes is never, ever call a girl on her shit THROUGH TEXT.
Don't call her out on how drunk she was, on how long she takes to return texts, on how she sucks at using her phone.
"Damn u must have been drunk lol"
"What u still figuring how to use smartphones lol"
NOPE.
I tried those with horrible results. Keep it positive and playful through text, always. If you need to call a bitch out, do it in person.
"...so I gave her an STD, and she STILL wanted to bang me."
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