I'm a guy from the midwest looking to move to LA this year, or LA metro. I also like Asian women a lot.
I heard in LA there is an "Asian-only" nightlife, and not being Asian myself, I'm not sure about how to get into this scene. I also don't know anyone there.
So...how do LA chicks take it when they find out a guy has no social proof there? Are there enough chicks who moved there recently as well and don't know that many people that you can meet online? I literally see hundreds of profiles of 7 & up in LA.
Where I live now, all of my friends are literally married. So, while I know people, I don't really have people to go out with, except on rare occasions.
The online dating in my city is terrible by the way. The only good thing, sometimes I'll run into someone I used to work with if I go out, or from college, so I'm able to feign some social proof. Although, now that I prefer to use my middle-name, I don't like explaining this, and it's been a catalyst for me to wanna move. (just wanted to give some backstory on why I want to leave). And the midwest is boring.
I like LA. I'm into fashion as well, which gets me dismissed as gay here, and it's getting old having to explain...tell them you aren't gay...and they get disappointed..stuff like "Oh, I've always wanted a gay friend", but you aren't the 6'2 white guy ex-fraternity president ex-high school QB they are 'waiting' for. Maybe you can pull a fling in the short-term, but even that is difficult with these women when they have hundreds of options. Especially the very small amount of good-looking available women with no kids past 25 here.
I heard in LA there is an "Asian-only" nightlife, and not being Asian myself, I'm not sure about how to get into this scene. I also don't know anyone there.
So...how do LA chicks take it when they find out a guy has no social proof there? Are there enough chicks who moved there recently as well and don't know that many people that you can meet online? I literally see hundreds of profiles of 7 & up in LA.
Where I live now, all of my friends are literally married. So, while I know people, I don't really have people to go out with, except on rare occasions.
The online dating in my city is terrible by the way. The only good thing, sometimes I'll run into someone I used to work with if I go out, or from college, so I'm able to feign some social proof. Although, now that I prefer to use my middle-name, I don't like explaining this, and it's been a catalyst for me to wanna move. (just wanted to give some backstory on why I want to leave). And the midwest is boring.
I like LA. I'm into fashion as well, which gets me dismissed as gay here, and it's getting old having to explain...tell them you aren't gay...and they get disappointed..stuff like "Oh, I've always wanted a gay friend", but you aren't the 6'2 white guy ex-fraternity president ex-high school QB they are 'waiting' for. Maybe you can pull a fling in the short-term, but even that is difficult with these women when they have hundreds of options. Especially the very small amount of good-looking available women with no kids past 25 here.