[kosko]

I've been in game for a year but still consider myself a learner, a work-in-progress. My game is at medium, and logistics and patience kills me more then anything else. Some times a dude hits a snag tho, her is my situation:

There is this Portuguese broad I have known off and on for a while. I never really tried to get to know because I did not want friendship with this women only to fuck her.

Fast forawd to now and I am all in tryna get with her. I really don't even hide it either per-se.

This broad is a typical scenster and is heavy into pills and coke and likes to have a good time... My type of women, but a pain in the ass to deal with.

The only issue is she is a strait up Bi... We have tried to set dates for a good 3 weeks now. She flaked once, and the one time I agreed to meet her same day on her account. She was begin to meet earlier in the night but I wanted to hit the gym first and made her wait. So we meet later for hook but not alone, its with her crew. Long story short .... I endup getting cock blocked by a bitch, a sexy blonde she had tagging along that was her *bitch*. Once we venue changed I was at the bar talking to old friends and then my broad bounces with her pussy in a cab.

In my head I could of easily tried to swing for a threesome but fellas I can't even explain how awkward it is to game a broad whom is digging you but also tryna kat call at some pussy herself... Its beyond strange and weird. In my mind I was just trying to game the broad I originally intended, it didn't even help her blonde friend was just as hot (she got defensive and katty when her pussy was digging me when we she introduced us lol). It also did not help the first venue was to loud and I couldn't talk for shit there. But thinking all is dead this bitch is still texting me on Sunday seeing what I'm doing. So I shun her and tell her we can meet Tuesday since I had plans that night already.

All in all that night was just to many variables thrown at me. I was out of my comfort zone and not in any situation where I could work my strengths.

My issue its just hella hard to isolate this girl. So I try and confirm for tonight and now she saying she's "sick".. I call bullshit and think she is just on her rag and tryna give me a hint. Since she isn't closing the door to meet just dropping the hints shes "Sick".

Should I push for her too still meet up "sick" and then at least try to escalate to a level where the next time we meet its on. Or should I submit to another reschedule?

[HiFlo]

if she's a party gal why don't you just invite her to your place for a "pre-party." brag about some primma fishscale yayo you got. either pregame or after-party with her sounds like the best way to isolate.

if you're at a venue, venue bounce a couple times with her to get her away from the orbiters than go for the 'after-party.' keep talkin about that fishscale or that awesome new drink you know how to make back at your pad.

[kosko]

I'm staying with family so my place is outta the question. I wish I did because I am thinking she would be 100% down.

"Come over for some drinks..." Done.

In a small City so the venues to bounce too will 99% of the time be packed full of her orbiters. Everybody knows everybody here which is good and bad. and my usual GP is to do wine at my favorite lounge that nobody my age goes too, bounce to a pub, and/or bounce to a restaurant I got on lockdown for some closed session drinks. With the last venue being her spot (have no idea if she lives on her own.. hell I assume all girls my age all do).

Its a rotating record. I'm getting exposed by this broad though because each time she flakes I just say the same venue to start out to next time lol. That's what I got locked down though so I ain't trying hit with places I am not used to. IMO its a bad move to venture to any spot unless you know the layout and how things work.

......

Things ironed out. I ignored her and she started blowing up my phone. So on Friday is the next time we will try this again. I just have to get a game plan to isolate and keep things flowing with venues. Have no idea if she has her own spot but if not I don't even care to get a hotel... if she pays half. lol.

How would I even plant a seed for that option? Is it really just a matter of crunch time when I'm in a cab and we try to figure out where to go? Or is it s a seed I need to plant early on? I'm so used to SNLs and random one-offs being tactical with such few weapons logistically is new to me I admit.

I fly out next week so really gotta take a swing here. One of the lessons I have learned is that a girl never hates on a dude for going for the Grand Slam. She may try and distance herself to not get back on that level with you (if she assumed ya'll were friends or some shit) but she never gonna dog you for it. This issue I got into a trap with 2 weeks ago.

[el mechanico]

Just get the hotel near where you drink and tell her you didn't want to drive or don't mention it until you see her. Pipeline other girls and make dates for the same night incase she flakes but have your logistics set up first.

[HiFlo]

you dont make her pay half the hotel room. if she doesnt have a place on her own, or if she lives with weird roommates so wont take you back there, you gotta shell out on a hotel. make a reservation when she's in the bathroom on your phone.

if you really want her to pay half, fucking take cash out of her purse when she's showering if you're done nailing her.

[Timoteo]

In my experience, most girls that claim to be bi-sexual are pretty much lesbians. Their preference is women, and on rare occasions they might fuck a dude. Online, chicks that claim to be bi seem to have ONLY women on their friends lists. Or they'll say they're bi, but only looking for women at the moment or something like that. It can be a real uphill battle with them. If you REALLY want to bang this chick, you can keep trying and hopefully you'll catch her at the right time.

[kosko]

(09-04-2012 10:01 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  

In my experience, most girls that claim to be bi-sexual are pretty much lesbians. Their preference is women, and on rare occasions they might fuck a dude. Online, chicks that claim to be bi seem to have ONLY women on their friends lists. Or they'll say they're bi, but only looking for women at the moment or something like that. It can be a real uphill battle with them. If you REALLY want to bang this chick, you can keep trying and hopefully you'll catch her at the right time.

Yea man that is the vibe I get from her. She will be all into me then get distracted when a fine feline comes her way. Then its all awkward and shit because really I would bang down the broads she goes after too, she has no shame though and will go after strait girls and I've seen it blow up in her face a few times lmao.

But like I was saying its extremely awkward seeing bi girls run game. Lezbos.. strait up dykes run game like dudes, nothing awkward there. But this Bi girl does all this simpy shit like smelling bitches neck and hair, flooding with compliments, etc. I've even seen her purr like a cat on some bitches neck... just super bizarre femme shit. Its like uber Omega-herbivore game, and If a dude tried that stuff a girl would stick their heels in his sack strait up. It for sure gives insight into how warped a females mind is.

I'll take peoples advice and plot out the logistics early. Put a CC hold on a room to hope I can backout last min without a major hit. If I loose like 40 bucks for a fee, whatever that's the price of the game.

Its worth the effort (i hope) because this bitch is exactly my type looks wise, and if shes BI and ends up being a freak I think I can easily pull her into my dark side of swinging and make her my kennel whore and basically use her to hunt down girls for threesomes. I get that vibe she would be down for that shit I just have to see how she is in bed first.

I'll set up this Egyptian broad whom has a BF as a backup, shes 100% down but is so skiddish on escalation and any PDA since she does not want to be outed.

I'm loving these small cities though, its like I'm having a feast at the United Nations. I can take down broads of all creeds, countries, and colors here. Nothing is taboo here like in Toronto.