Met this girl my sophomore year. A townie. We hung out from time to time and I was then in a relationship. So I was really distant from this chick. She seems sort of in to me. Always complimenting me and stuff, and I honest to god think I caught her masturbating in her car once too, so I was intrigued.
Anyway...me and that other girl I was with part ways, I move in on this chick. I'm sort of a mess emotionally junior year because of a lot of stuff and I start confiding in her. Real emotional stuff that I usually keep to myself. At the end of the semester, I decide to go abroad for the spring. I call her and leave a voicemail saying I'm leaving. Talk to her the next week: turns out she cut a chunk of her hair from her head to make a paintbrush right after I left.
When abroad, I called her and wanted to know what she thought of our relationship. I told her I liked her. She said she just started dating another guy. I stopped calling her. Whatever. Started dating another chick abroad. Estonian. Good time.
Now I'm back. She's living with her boyfriend. And she keeps telling me how happy she is that I'm back, that I'm such a cool guy, fucking overkill. Laughs at every damn thing I say. She used to live forty five minutes away. Now lives in the same city and works two blocks from my dorm. I tell her that I applied for a cruise ship job after graduation and she has a mini freak out. First thing she says "I don't know if I could live on a ship that long." The fuck cares about your preferences? Then her eyes get watery, she starts telling me the evils and dangers of living out at sea. Tells me a story about a father who went out to sea and never returned to his family. Whole tone of the conversation changes until I remind her I haven't gotten the job yet.
I like this girl. I want to fuck her. She's needy as fuck though. Deeply fears abandonment. Has a fucking boyfriend. Is very attractive as well. I go to a small school where everyone knows everyone's business so chilling with a top shelf townie girl from time to time is a definite plus and social proof. But she's fucking with my head. And she lies a lot. Not about big stuff, but little things that I know don't really add up with other shit she said.
What should I do? I don't know what her deal is. I haven't called her in six months. But she keeps calling me and I haven't had the heart to ignore her.
Anyway...me and that other girl I was with part ways, I move in on this chick. I'm sort of a mess emotionally junior year because of a lot of stuff and I start confiding in her. Real emotional stuff that I usually keep to myself. At the end of the semester, I decide to go abroad for the spring. I call her and leave a voicemail saying I'm leaving. Talk to her the next week: turns out she cut a chunk of her hair from her head to make a paintbrush right after I left.
When abroad, I called her and wanted to know what she thought of our relationship. I told her I liked her. She said she just started dating another guy. I stopped calling her. Whatever. Started dating another chick abroad. Estonian. Good time.
Now I'm back. She's living with her boyfriend. And she keeps telling me how happy she is that I'm back, that I'm such a cool guy, fucking overkill. Laughs at every damn thing I say. She used to live forty five minutes away. Now lives in the same city and works two blocks from my dorm. I tell her that I applied for a cruise ship job after graduation and she has a mini freak out. First thing she says "I don't know if I could live on a ship that long." The fuck cares about your preferences? Then her eyes get watery, she starts telling me the evils and dangers of living out at sea. Tells me a story about a father who went out to sea and never returned to his family. Whole tone of the conversation changes until I remind her I haven't gotten the job yet.
I like this girl. I want to fuck her. She's needy as fuck though. Deeply fears abandonment. Has a fucking boyfriend. Is very attractive as well. I go to a small school where everyone knows everyone's business so chilling with a top shelf townie girl from time to time is a definite plus and social proof. But she's fucking with my head. And she lies a lot. Not about big stuff, but little things that I know don't really add up with other shit she said.
What should I do? I don't know what her deal is. I haven't called her in six months. But she keeps calling me and I haven't had the heart to ignore her.
Always be trolling
