Until June I was sleeping with a girl who was basically a FWB. I'd bang her at her place and we'd go out occasionally.
Once or twice, she would send me a message saying "I don't think we should meet up anymore. It's not good simply to meet up and have sex without 'love'." (she's a Christian, Church-going, Korean, and grew up in a very strict household).
We ended up banging after she sent this message, anyway, but I kinda had to be subtle about re-entering.
She finds out I've been seeing another girl (who later became an LTR)...says we shouldn't...but we end up banging anyway. Finally, she says again "But this isn't good, you know. We shouldn't have sex anymore." I answer: "OK, fine with me," and say we should just meet up as old buddies.
A few days later, she texts me, said she was making sushi with her friends, and asks if I want to come over and try some when they're gone. I respond a few hours later with "sorry, don't have time" (I was working).
We don't meet up for a month (I'm busy with my GF and exams). I run into her and we talk. She says she thought it was odd that I went silent, but now understands since I've got a GF.
Any advice on getting her back into my rotation? She seems to have Christian guilt about non-committed sex (she started blushing the first time I asked her out), which will be amplified by the fact that she knows I've got a GF. It seems like I can't just hit her up and say "hey, let's fuck". Any ideas?
Once or twice, she would send me a message saying "I don't think we should meet up anymore. It's not good simply to meet up and have sex without 'love'." (she's a Christian, Church-going, Korean, and grew up in a very strict household).
We ended up banging after she sent this message, anyway, but I kinda had to be subtle about re-entering.
She finds out I've been seeing another girl (who later became an LTR)...says we shouldn't...but we end up banging anyway. Finally, she says again "But this isn't good, you know. We shouldn't have sex anymore." I answer: "OK, fine with me," and say we should just meet up as old buddies.
A few days later, she texts me, said she was making sushi with her friends, and asks if I want to come over and try some when they're gone. I respond a few hours later with "sorry, don't have time" (I was working).
We don't meet up for a month (I'm busy with my GF and exams). I run into her and we talk. She says she thought it was odd that I went silent, but now understands since I've got a GF.
Any advice on getting her back into my rotation? She seems to have Christian guilt about non-committed sex (she started blushing the first time I asked her out), which will be amplified by the fact that she knows I've got a GF. It seems like I can't just hit her up and say "hey, let's fuck". Any ideas?