[dontuan]

Hey,

So I have been noticing that roommate has been getting laid a lot by periodically chatting with girls on facebook or text messaging. Its a method that's referred to as "slow burn" game.

On the surface it seems kind of beta, but it actually works pretty well for him. Mostly because it's more laid back, less needy and slowly builds up the attraction.

I been trying to look up resources on this but there's isn't much guidance out there. Anyone does this? What methods have you used?

[snoop]

how about starting with your roommate's method.

Break it down...

[XXL]

[align=justify]basically it's the opposite of classic high-octane-material-based game where spitting routines resulted in big bursts of attraction again and again. it was like giving girls big doses of drugs until they they go crazy. hence LMRs, buyer remorse and shit like that.

metaphorically speaking your buddy's game is about applying little and systematical doses of attraction drug to girls but not over the top, just enough to make them and keep attracted. so the attraction level stays at sustainable level and at any point it can be raised or lowered.

i can definitely relate. i guess i'm your source. shoot questions if this below is not clear.

basically it's more about being patient and keep interactions chill.

because we learn social dynamics/skills when we approach girls it's very cool experience to them but at the same time kidn of intimidating. so the first goal is to calm a girl down and make her girl comfortable with us. only then she can relax, start open up emotionally and warm up to the idea of being seduced.

so the process is.. stressed > interested > excited emotionally > turned on physically. this takes time.

to make it possible and guide her through this process smoothly you consistently spike her emotions negatively and positively back and forth but not too much, just a little bit, just enough to keep her attention focused on you. hence, interactions don't look flashy or spectacular (sometimes plain boring), more like a friends hanging out having good time except that physicality is too sexy for classic friendship. girls don't squeek or jump around like crazy seeing you but instead they're happy and attentive when you're around and they comply then you lead.

kind of invisible game. it's like attraction spikes are distributed with smaller doses over the longer period of time. and with time girls get attracted more and more. it's almost inevitable. attractive guy + time = sex.

the result is that when your buddy shoot them text it spikes their emotions just enough to stay in their head until next time. i totally understand that being accustomed to high octane game that routines like 'best friend test' provide, yes your buddy's game might look like full on beta ha ha. but keeping it chill/normal/classy eliminates a lot of buyer remorse, resistance, lmr etc, because instead of fighting with her using mind tricks to bang her, you pull the trigger while the girl is ready and enthusiastic towards intimacy.

[Hades]

This post is kind of interesting. I'm going to troll facebook and see if anyone is doing what you're describing.

[Aliblahba]

I like slow burn game. "Keeping the pot warm" is a term I use from Jay Leno. It's important to have both styles of game. You're working both speeds. IME, some women don't respond well to fast octane game, so keep it low and slow. They'll come around.

You're not investing a lot of time either. Maybe a text or message every couple days. But when are ready, they are ready. Use these girls for the back end, but run octane game for the front end.

[Giovonny]

These threads have some examples where I have "slow played"..

Gaming Supermarket Girls

Class/Lecture
Game

Gaming at Work