[hoops330]

I am sitting at the bar tonight drinking gin and tonic and sitting across from two ladies in their early thirties. Another girl comes up to them and introduces herself and basically breaks the ice for her guy friends. She calls the guys over and they work their best game.

Anyone here use a wingwoman? My first thought is that these guys would have no chance because I assumed the girls would shoot down any guy that didnt have the balls to approach them on their own but they appeared to do pretty well. What is everyones take on this? I think that with the right girl it can really provide an advantage.

[Architekt]

I find that just going out with women is actually really beneficial, especially if they're in a relationship. They will more than likely help your interactions, rather than cockblock you, and when women see you with other women, they assume you're cool/safe. It's been my favourite tactic lately.

[Sebastian]

If you can't bang a girl, then it's better to just hang out with her. The thing is it's either bang or see ya.
Even as a guy, when I see an average guy with a hot girl, I assume he either has a very good personality or is rich.
I am sure girls would be more intrigued by this.

I think hanging out with 8 will give you an automatic pass for talking to girls 8 and down.
(like being invited to a special party. They will automatically assume you are up to their level)

[x2d4d]

One catch if you actually use her as a wingwoman, she should be up for helping you, not fulfilling her own feminist fantasies or indulging in covert female competition. Specifically, I've had "wingwomen" turn into obstacles when targets appear hot and slutty, despite being quite eager to help you with an attractive-but-modest 35-year-old career-woman. You may not care of the HB9 is a bitch so long as she likes you and is willing to put out, but a wingwoman will be a lot less likely to play her role in that scenario.

I've also had wingwomen be surpsingly clumsy about DLV'ing me, like declaring within moments of meeting that "we aren't together he's totally single."

Other than that, yeah they are great.

[Belize King]

I had a wingwoman for six solid months. My roommates were broke and rather drink and play video games at home that hit the bars. I had this Naija??? girl who was from Houston. It worked for us and against us. Alot of the time people thought we were together. Dudes would stare at her but didnt approach because of me and girls would eyeball right slick. She would open for me and I would open for her. She loved to dance so all eyes were on her when she did. Our story was we were cousins and went to the university in Brownsville.

If your girl is cool as shit, down to open for you whenever you ask, a solid 6-7, then I would use her. There are days where I rather be solo but there are days when I used her to break down the scene, see how women actually think, she would see shit I didn't pay attention to.

Everybody should use a wingwoman at least 10% of their outings. You can learn some shit from them and might get some unexpected lays out of it.

[soup]

There's no such thing as a "wingwoman."

That's like saying they are female "players" when the correct term is slut.

Women can be used as pivots.

[Kitsune]

I would never use a wingwoman.

Never.

[theIVth]

I had two twins that were my female wings per say. It would be cool at times, but secretly, I knew one of them had a crush on me and I would notice little passive aggressive shit she would do to cockblock me at times. Her jealousy got out of hand one night to where she started talking up this other guy to a girl that she was supposed to be hooking me up with. That same night she tried to fuck me in front of that same girl she was supposed to be putting me hooking me up with smh. Not to mention countless other times that she would do little slick shit to try divert girls attention away from me. Ive since stopped fucking with them.

So I think that if you can find the perfect storm type of situation where she is cute but isn't attracted to you, it could work. I've never been able to find this type of situation tho.

[esperar]

(07-14-2012 03:43 PM)soup Wrote:  

There's no such thing as a "wingwoman."

That's like saying they are female "players" when the correct term is slut.

Women can be used as pivots.

Is a pivot a tool? I know a chick who would be a good wingwoman, but she lives in the USA. Very cool chick, and knows I'm a misogynist yet still thinks I'm cool.

[soup]

I would not directly involve a girl in trying to get me laid.

That's like trusting a woman with your bank password.

You can bring her around to help up your pre-selection. But, be careful because you don't want it to look she's just your friend. She has to be attracted to you (consciously, or subconsciously). Then the other girls will take notice.

It can be fun practicing attraction on her because there's no pressure to bang her out.

If you are "just friends," you might come of as kind of queer.

[esperar]

Yeah, that's a good point. She would have the best intentions, but I'm not totally sure she would be able to get the job done.