[michelin]

that's why i stay away from FB. waste of time, way better spend it on daygame

[YoungGunner]

(06-15-2012 01:42 AM)P Dog Wrote:  

(06-14-2012 03:03 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

Facebook does more harm than good.

For every bang that you indirectly score, I feel like there's five pieces of drama. A lot of the harm it does, to make matters worse, is unseen. It strips away at your mystery, your cachet.

Facebook is for rookies, sexless orbiters, and girls. There are exceptions, of course, but they're far rarer than Facebook boosters would have you believe.

Having a Facebook account is essential for the very young guys though. 99% of all house party invites are via a Facebook event. Just don't go adding the girls you meet and don't tag yourself in any crap pictures. If somebody else tags you and you can't untag, you can "hide" them from your timeline instead.

I agree it's borderline essential for guys like us to have facebook, only because it's become like a cultural disease and people think something's wrong with you if you don't use it.


Frankly, I think alot of the girls want you to friend them just so they can attention whore and show how "desired" they are by betas commenting on their pics, and turn you into one of those betas. They're so insecure that they need to post pics and dig for attention online, yet it doesn't stop there: the fact that you're above such practices, and don't want anything to do with that, makes them feel insecure as well, so they want to call you "weird" and "awkward" for not joining. They want company for their insecurity.

As a compromise, I recommend my dual profile approach.

[el mechanico]

I've been beta orbiting some of other forum members Colombian girlfriends for the last couple months there. Will transition into bangs one day

[Roosh]

I haven't added a girl to Facebook in a year.

But I have added them to my fake Facebook account to mine pictures for my personal collection.

The problem can be partially solved by disabling your wall and preventing your friends from seeing other friends.

[Eddie Winslow]

The only reason you, me, or anyone else would become facebook friends with a girl they are banging or trying to bang is to get full access to her "Spring Break '09!! Luv my girls <3" album. That way you can show off her best pics (before she gained 10lbs) to your roommates, friends, and anyone who is willing to check it out, and have this conversation:

You: "DUDE, come here, check out this girl who sucked my dick last weekend...wait let me find a good one.....here."

DUDE: "Nice."

Worth it?

[Chapped3rdEye]

Fuck Facebook in its ass.

[GunznButta]

i'm about as private as can possibly be on the fb for these reasons:

1. fb encourages you to share everything. yet....suckerberg shares shit!

2. fb is social; social is chick; chick is...you get the idea.

i do have fb friends but they're 98% guys.

[tjames]

(06-15-2012 02:32 PM)americanbk Wrote:  

The only reason you, me, or anyone else would become facebook friends with a girl they are banging or trying to bang is to get full access to her "Spring Break '09!! Luv my girls <3" album. That way you can show off her best pics (before she gained 10lbs) to your roommates, friends, and anyone who is willing to check it out, and have this conversation:

You: "DUDE, come here, check out this girl who sucked my dick last weekend...wait let me find a good one.....here."

DUDE: "Nice."

Worth it?

Yea that's why I did it. But never again now for sure. Not that I truly give a fuck but I don't want any stalkers. I will probably do the dual profile approach.

I need the ego boost of seeing girls I banged and bragging about it.

[alphascout]

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[FretDancer]

Simple, just don't use facebook for game or anything related.

[haywire]

(06-16-2012 01:07 PM)alphascout Wrote:  

For younger women you need facebook or they think you are weird.

It totally depends on how you frame it. If you buy into their frame then yes they will think you are weird OR you can sell them your frame "facebook is for kids". Hell, if you can successfully create the latter frame then it can actually serve as a DHV - "wow, this guys is different from the rest".

Quote:

This gives me an idea!

For the world traveller,
How to Guide to Making a Good Secondary Profile (have not field tested yet):
......

The result:
.....

Appreciate your efforts, but this is seriously too much effort(as if Facebook-ing is your fulltime job with 100 hour weeks), too much to worry about with no real visible gains. You'll get a much greater ROI if you actually spend that much time on real approaches.

[Screwston]

Uhhhh that's a lot of work for what? I've never not fucked a girl because of a Facebook issue. Listen to me and the older players. This Facebook shit is a waste of time and won't help you get ass. Stop thinking like a sheep. YOU think you're weird for not being obsessed with Facebook, not some bitch. Jesus Christ, I don't think these youngsters would know how to fuck girls if they were sent back to before cell phones were around.

[el mechanico]

Is there any way to tell which girls keep clicking your profile?

[porscheguy]

If a girl is calling you an asshole on facebook, it means you're on her mind. You can still bang her.

[Amsterdao!]

(06-16-2012 06:16 PM)porscheguy Wrote:  

If a girl is calling you an asshole on facebook, it means you're on her mind. You can still bang her.

True..assholes will be remembered, losers will be forgotten.

[megatron]

I gamed my current girlfriend by saying this after she asked for my facebook right before our first date: "I'm picky with who I'm friends with, so maybe after we get to know each other better."

[Timoteo]

(09-13-2012 06:53 PM)megatron Wrote:  

I gamed my current girlfriend by saying this after she asked for my facebook right before our first date: "I'm picky with who I'm friends with, so maybe after we get to know each other better."

This is exactly how you should approach it. The only people on my FB friends list are either long-time friends, old school mates that found me there, some friends of friends, and chicks that I met online on other sites that I've corresponded with over a long period of time, emailed, chatted or webcammed with and developed a good friendship with. And those are all internationals. Too many people add random people that they met out partying. You can't give people like that immediate access to you and your friends/family.

[Ramon Zarate]

"But everyone will think you're weird for not having facebook." Let them. If you say you don't have it and a girl says "that's weird" ask "why?". If she says "because everyone else has it" I say I don't care and that it's a phenomenal waste of time and leave it at that. She's not going to want to debate further but you showed you're unafraid to challenge her. If she still thinks you're a loser for not being on a data-mining time sink of a website then fuck that shit, move on and reward girls who are at least slightly open-minded with your time.

[amity]

(09-25-2012 07:04 AM)Ramon Zarate Wrote:  

I'm college aged and don't have facebook - I get told about house parties... people will tell you if they want you to come round, you don't just crash some random house party that's on fb and happens to be near you lol.

"But everyone will think you're weird for not having facebook." Let them. If you say you don't have it and a girl says "that's weird" ask "why?". If she says "because everyone else has it" I say I don't care and that it's a phenomenal waste of time and leave it at that. She's not going to want to debate further but you showed you're unafraid to challenge her. If she still thinks you're a loser for not being on a data-mining time sink of a website then fuck that shit, move on and reward girls who are at least slightly open-minded with your time.

i second this
it can be a massive waste of time, unless you're disciplined about how often and for how long you use it
and as for using if for gaming chicks, i've had little success with facebook game, and i'm finding that increasingly the women i tend to meet and click with either have no FB profile or have a profile but only use it here and there
this is a good sign, it means they are probably not attention whores
it's getting to the stage where if i find out a girl is an avid facebook user, i tend to lose interest, as i know they'll have gotten used to that perpetual circle jerk of multiple guys liking everything they post up (even the only semi-attractive chicks get enough likes from various guys they know to feed their ego)

i remember one girl(blonde, cute but nothing amazing, maybe a 6) who begged me to come back on FB when i dropped off it for a while, once i came back, she briefly flirted with me, then dropped off the radar completely, it's clear that she only wanted me there to stroke her ego, like all her (mostly male) friends
lesson learned

[iknowexactly]

(06-16-2012 01:07 PM)alphascout Wrote:  

1-create a second profile, with real first name but obviously fake last name (e.g. James USA or "Jake Jakey")
..
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.
11-block all photos you are tagged in.

12-remove all your fake friends from updates you make to your FB/remove their access to your page 100% (put privacy way up for this group of people)

12- add new girls you meet this new fake facebook page.


The result:
-facebook profile with your real first name/photos
-1000s of friends
-posts on wall

This sounds like a well-thought out strategy, but also like a part time job.

You could learn to play the guitar or read up on something interesting in that time instead of just being a computer addict.

[germanico]

Facebook is a tool, and like any tool, it can help you build a palace, or it can cripple you when you drop it on your toes.

[IainMuirs]

I don't understand why anyone would have their mum on Facebook. I know my mum has Facebook, I've heard her talk about it, but she's never sent me a friend request (and why would she? I doubt she wants me as a friend on there either) and I certainly wouldn't be sending her one. I have none of my family on FB, I don't even have a lot of my friends on it as I have their phone numbers and see them regularly, what reason is there to have them on an social media site? I only use my FB for people I meet travelling who otherwise I wouldn't ever keep in touch with and tbh most of the people on it I don't keep in touch with anyway but it has come in handy a few times when I'm heading off to a new country and I realise I already know someone there. I don't add any girls that I'm fucking or planning to fuck either, bad idea.

If I didn't travel a lot, then FB would be absolutely pointless.

[Bad Hussar]

A partial solution would be for Facebook to institute "temporary Friend" as a friend category. A friend/link that automatically deletes itself after 7 days/24 hours without any action on either persons part. That way people who have just met can "friend" each other without being afraid that they may have to "unfriend" that person later. The chick gets to see your public profile to partially satisfy her insatiable curiosity, and see that you're not "weird", but since the link soon expires she can't do too much damage.

As to the OP's problem. To be honest most mothers don't care too much if their sons are wild, occasional tut-tutting aside, and will almost always side with their son over some chick (obviously). Basically, women want their husbands to be "dads" and their son's to be "cads". That way their (genetic) happiness is maximised.

[Glass Walker]

I find Facebook to be a blessing for one and only one reason - it helps you weed out unattractive girls from the online dating world.

I have saved countless hours of my time by adding a girl on facebook and checking out her many unflattering pictures there. An unattractive girl can mislead you easily enough with a one or two well chosen photos, but very few will go through the trouble of filtering all their photos on facebook, and you can often get a good idea of what she actually looks like.

[Kitsune]

(09-27-2012 10:38 AM)Bad Hussar Wrote:  

A partial solution would be for Facebook to institute "temporary Friend" as a friend category. A friend/link that automatically deletes itself after 7 days/24 hours without any action on either persons part. That way people who have just met can "friend" each other without being afraid that they may have to "unfriend" that person later. The chick gets to see your public profile to partially satisfy her insatiable curiosity, and see that you're not "weird", but since the link soon expires she can't do too much damage.

Imagine how many Omega males and fat girls would kill themselves if this happened.