[Nujabes]

I'm calling this the George Costanza project. Doing everything opposite of what my instincts tell me.

It's like that Seinfeld episode where George does EVERYTHING the opposite way and has much success. Going against what your instincts tell you...

So I'm gaming this side piece and the more I act like a women meaning making NO SENSE in the way I think and respond, going against my instincts and all logic, the more the hamster wheel spins and she wants me. Just something on the side from my main dish. For instance...

- We'll be talking on the phone. She would be in the middle of talking and I would just hang up on her... Let the phone go straight to VM then text her 2 or 3 days later saying "some shit went down" then pick up where we left off like nothing even happen.

- Same thing for texting. We'll be in the middle of texting, having a convo and all of a sudden I would stop responding to her till 2 or 3 days later. texting her "some shit went down" then picking up the conversation where we left off.

- I see this chick everywhere! I see her on the road, she starts waving at me and smiling from ear to ear. I look her dead in the face. Give her that raised eyebrow look, hit the brakes, stop the car in the middle of the road and hook a quick right. She texts me "Are you outta your mind?? stopping in the middle of the road like that." and i reply saying " i was ready to hold up traffic if i had to"

- See her again at the mall, same thing, looks me straight in the eye, smiles , starts to walk towards me to say hi, i give her a node, put the phone to my ear, made a "u turn" and walk the other way jumping into my buddies car telling him to step on it. leaving her there with this confused look on her face. F****** priceless... She texts me "what's your deal" and i respond saying "i gotta go handle some shit"

- We went out to dinner together with a couple of friends, and in the middle of dinner, i get up and walk out for no reason and go home. I told her "I had to handle some shit"


AND YET AFTER ALL THIS, SHE STILL WANTS TO HOP ONTO THIS COCK... It blows my mind. I'm left speechless...

I'm going to apply the GC method to all faucets of life, not just women.

Seinfeld Extras - The Opposite- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0lq8U2pqmWU

[Screwston]

The opposite of my game would be to act like a complete beta fag. I guess this will work if your game sucks (George Castanza). Didn't he try to act like a bad boy or something?

[WanderingSoul]

Not to be a prick, but that sounds like you placed a lot of effort in AVOIDING getting some pussy.

You say she "WANTS TO HOP ONTO THIS COCK" yet you haven't fucked her? Stop playing games and get it done.

Drop the current shit you are pulling, re-read Bang, and go get your dick wet. Right now all you are doing is delaying, and quite possibly completely fucking up, your chance at some action.

P.S., If my advice gets you laid, I want pics.

[muc]

Dude, Seinfeld is funny, but Constanza is a seriously fucked up character with a million issues. What you try to do could be funny here and there, but better do as RioNomad says. And if you have some issues with yourself (and who doesn't?) then use the energy to work on those instead.

And yeah, def. pics.

[j r]

Yeah, George Costanza was trying to stop from being a loser and when he changed his behavior, things immediately started falling into place. It sounds like you are just making things more difficult for yourself. You're doing a reverse-Costanza.

[EisenBarde]

This only works if your instincts are screwed up. I'd say a large majority of my problems with women came from me SUPPRESSING my natural instincts as a result of INTENTIONAL CONDITIONING from others.

[Roosh]

I approve of this project.

[plague]

regardless of the overall quality of your plan, "some shit went down" is a pretty good line.

[Veloce]

Yeah, speaking from personal experience:

For the first year of getting into game, if you hear a voice in your head that says, "I would normally never do this." Do it. Once you start developing good habits and strategies then it's time to adopt new "projects".

[Drazen]

I like this and hope you keep us updated

[Giovonny]

(06-07-2012 08:27 PM)Nujabes Wrote:  

- We'll be talking on the phone. She would be in the middle of talking and I would just hang up on her... Let the phone go straight to VM then text her 2 or 3 days later saying "some shit went down" then pick up where we left off like nothing even happen.

- See her again at the mall, same thing, looks me straight in the eye, smiles , starts to walk towards me to say hi, i give her a node, put the phone to my ear, made a "u turn" and walk the other way jumping into my buddies car telling him to step on it. leaving her there with this confused look on her face. F****** priceless... She texts me "what's your deal" and i respond saying "i gotta go handle some shit"

- We went out to dinner together with a couple of friends, and in the middle of dinner, i get up and walk out for no reason and go home. I told her "I had to handle some shit"


AND YET AFTER ALL THIS, SHE STILL WANTS TO HOP ONTO THIS COCK... It blows my mind. I'm left speechless...

Of course girls like this kind of shit. What is the big surprise? You are presenting yourself as more ballsy, more mysterious, less clingy and less needy then 99.99% of all other guys. The girl is probably wondering who the fuck you are and what the fuck your deal is. They get curious when they realize that they have never met a guy like you.

Over the years, alot of my game has been about doing stuff that other guys don't do. We have to find ways to set ourselves apart and standout from the crowd.

Acting like everyone else is a good way to fit in with the crowd and be just another dude. Why not be different and attract the girls who don't want the "average joe".

I love this strategy. I have always separated myself from the crowd with the way I dress, the way I talk, and also doing some crazy/funny shit. Girls like different, as long as you can pull it off.

Doing what everyone else does will make you, well, average.

Doing things that other men don't do makes you really stupid or really smart, depending on how well you execute it.

Very interesting experiment here. Best of luck.

Reminds me of this thread:

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