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need advice on bar approach
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need advice on bar approach

So the other night I was at the bar. It was packed to shit with college students (myself included) and it was nearly impossible to even get drunk. I was double fisting a pitcher and a whiskey. The ratio was in favor of men, believe it or not.

My drinks were empty so I walked back up to the bar and ended up approaching two women there. I used the classic Roosh opener, "You guys look like you're having the most fun here", it's gold!

So we were chatting and getting to know each other and I'm getting all sorts of friendly signals of interest from one of the girls. She mentions offhand that she's dating some dude from my department, which I shrug off. She seems more interested, so I commence with teasing. I considered kissing her.

Then out of nowhere some blonde girl fucks up my set and starts grinding her ass on my junk. I ignored her for a while but told her to leave when she seriously started interfering. Then my friends said they were leaving so I had to ride home with them.

What should I have done in this situation? My intent was to go home with the first girl. Could I have possibly taken the random blonde home instead?
Also I'm sort of confused as to why this sort of thing wouldn't proof me as preselected. I was surrounded by interested women and seriously looked like "THE MAN" for about twenty minutes.


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5. What if I don't know which girl to pick?

Let's say you've got two girls on opposite ends of the bar that are both into you, but you can only try to bang one tonight, what do you do? This is very simple: You pick the horniest one. If both seem like a 'sure thing' then you pick the more attractive one. If you pass up on the sure thing at any point in the night, you will more than likely regret it later. If the girl is especially DTF, work on getting her out of that venue and into a bed, ASAP!


6. Dealing with cock-blocking:

Roosh's line: “Did you really just do that? I’m being friendly and respectful to your friend and you rudely interrupt. Did your parents teach you to be anti-social like that?” from this blog post.

Here's a post from Tuth that links to many other forms of rooster blocking.

The main thing is to keep your cool, and to not let the offender get away with their crime unpunished. You want to give the perpetrator something to think about next time they try to stop you (and their friend) from getting laid.

Alrighty, this says that cockblockers should be called out, and super DTF chicks should be taken home. I would say that the blonde was pretty DTF. How could I have taken the blonde home without rewarding her bad behavior? Was she shit testing me to see if I was easy?
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need advice on bar approach

I know sometimes it's hard to 'shift gears' when you've got your sights set on one girl, but one thing you have to learn to develop is fluidity. Don't get so attracted to one girl that you can't be open to another.

The girl grinding on you could have been fucking with you. Or she could have been insanely horny. If that happened to me, and the blonde girl passed my boner test, I'd try to move her to a dance area and gauge if she's genuinely horny or just fucking with me. If she really was horny I'd escalate on the dance floor, tell her after party at my place, and leave with her.

Either way, a girl grinding on you is not a cockblock, unless it's some sort of fucked up cockblock like her friends put her up to it to fuck up your set. Seems unlikely to me. She may have gotten a great vibe from you since you were in the middle of a semi-successful approach and decided she wanted your cock for the night.

You taking a girl home is not rewarding her bad behavior. You taking a girl home is getting laid.

Also, when you go out, you should try to set up logistics so you don't have to go home when your friends do. If anything, the biggest cockblocks of the night were your friends.

"...so I gave her an STD, and she STILL wanted to bang me."

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need advice on bar approach

Quote: (05-21-2012 12:00 PM)thedude3737 Wrote:  

If anything, the biggest cockblocks of the night were your friends.

If only I had a nickel every time..
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need advice on bar approach

Quote: (05-21-2012 12:00 PM)thedude3737 Wrote:  

I know sometimes it's hard to 'shift gears' when you've got your sights set on one girl, but one thing you have to learn to develop is fluidity. Don't get so attracted to one girl that you can't be open to another.

The girl grinding on you could have been fucking with you. Or she could have been insanely horny. If that happened to me, and the blonde girl passed my boner test, I'd try to move her to a dance area and gauge if she's genuinely horny or just fucking with me. If she really was horny I'd escalate on the dance floor, tell her after party at my place, and leave with her.

Yeah, she definitely passed my boner test. I've just never had an approach that got interrupted like that before. I sort of thought she was protecting her friend from cheating on her boyfriend (?).

It was too loud to figure out if the two girls were friends or not.


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Either way, a girl grinding on you is not a cockblock, unless it's some sort of fucked up cockblock like her friends put her up to it to fuck up your set. Seems unlikely to me. She may have gotten a great vibe from you since you were in the middle of a semi-successful approach and decided she wanted your cock for the night.

You taking a girl home is not rewarding her bad behavior. You taking a girl home is getting laid.

Also, when you go out, you should try to set up logistics so you don't have to go home when your friends do. If anything, the biggest cockblocks of the night were your friends.

Yeah, that was probably the warmest approach I've ever had, if she was being serious. Never had a girl try that hard to successfully get my full attention.

I didn't want to switch gears immediately because (I think I read this on a roosh blog entry) there's no sense in trading in a sure thing for something that could be better. They were both cute. I hesitated and lost the vibe.

I agree, my friends are cockblocks. I'm fairly beta and with little game but I know I have lost out on at least three lays in the last month or two because I was out with friends. I suffer their bullshit because I'm a pretty lonely dude.
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need advice on bar approach

I feel you man, this sort of things happen to me too and I had to give up on what I believe were some good prospects to go back home with my friends. Since most of them have gfs/ aren't into game, whenever they feel the vibe is off/ there isn't much to do (even if there are 6s and 7s around) they'll just decide to call it a night and since I lack the confidence and social cred to roll solo I end up going back with them
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