[esperar]

One door closes, and then another opens. An Argentine chick says she will meet up with me when she comes to England in January.

[esperar]

OK, this is pretty insane. This woman from Argentina talks to me, says she thinks I'm gorgeous, and essentially says I'm her type. Very eager to meet me when she's in the UK in January. I've had women come at me like this before, but this is very very forward. I'm slightly suspicious.

[esperar]

OK, so I gave up on the Spanish girl, not only because I thought she wasn't interested in me, I started to think she was repulsed by me, and then she gets in to contact with me out of nowhere. Anyway, she was asking me things almost as if she wanted to find out when I was available. I had already given up, so i said fuck it, and invited her out because I had nothing to lose, and she agreed. We met today, and we went to a café and had drinks, then she showed me around the city. (she knows the city better than me) We were together for several hours talking, and then she walked me to the train station. She seems interested in seeing me again.

This time she didn't bring her friends.

Anyway, should I make myself scarce? By acting busy and saying I can't invite her out anymore, it seemed to make her more interested, but I really have no idea. Really, it's got to the point where I have lost a lot of interest anyway, so it won't be hard to stay away.

[big poppa]

I'd at least go in for a make out next meeting, if she refuses move on.

[esperar]

Last time I hinted at my interest in her, she told me she has a boyfriend back in Spain and doesn't want me to get the wrong idea. I just said I had no interest anyway, and then I just moved on until she she contacted me again. If I try to go in for a make out next meeting, maybe she will freak out? Maybe I shouldn't bother, I've already put too much work in to this for my liking

The woman from Argentina comes on to me a lot more strongly than her. She practically told me I was her fantasy. Very very very strong hints.

[esperar]

OK, chick from Spain is out as far as I'm concerned. I have very little tolerance for her lack of effort. The one from Argentina is still coming on to me strongly, so i'll see what happens with that one instead. I'm still gonna try to find other poon at clubs and stuff.

I'm only 27, and I feel like my tolerance for chick crap is practically dead. I don't get angry, I just can't be bothered.

[esperar]

Gave up on the Spanish chick for the SECOND time, and then she asks me out. Her English isn't great, so the day got mixed up. I thought she meant Sunday, but she meant Saturday. I sent her a message on Saturday saying yeah we could go out on Sunday if she wants, but then she said it was for the day I responded. 10 minutes later I sent her a reply saying she "could come and see me now if she wants." Right away she gets a shower, dresses, and then gets on a train to come and see me right away. We spend about 4 or 5 hours together, and everything went great. The SECOND time we had met up where I thought it went great, and again, no response.

I told her about 3 days after we met that I like her, and want to see her again. She comes online, and no response. Should I just kick her out totally, or tell her off for sending these mixed signals? I'm finding it all pretty tedious.

[MiXX]

Ok, dude...you are officially a troll in my book:




Mixx

[esperar]

No, I'm not troll, I'm just bad with women. I'm still trying to see other women, so should I just discard her?

[esperar]

OK, gave up on this vagina for a while after she gave me the "LJBF" crap and worked on other girls instead.. Blah blah blah, I start talking to her again after 3 months of no contact and after working on other girls. Things are going well, but despite her coming out to see me again twice in two weeks, I make no attempt to fuck her. (I don't know why, I just didn't try it, maybe that's why she is being more responsive because I am not "trying"?) Anyway, she's coming out again tomorrow night at the same place I'm gonna be at, and I'm gonna try and get her drunk a little. What are some good drinks for girls? If I ask her if she wants a drink, she will say no, but if I just buy it for her and give it her, she will probably take it.

[Surreyman]

You were on that last one WAY too long.

I'm going to reiterate the previous advice of banging some fatties.

[esperar]

Yes I was, but she was my first real target since I started with the whole PUA thing. I have since hit on many other chicks and spent much less time on them.

[esperar]

Oh, and no fat chicks. I have attractive girls who show interest in me, I'm just really bad at closing the deal...

[RedBull]

(04-26-2012 05:38 PM)esperar Wrote:  

Oh, and no fat chicks. I have attractive girls who show interest in me, I'm just really bad at closing the deal...

[esperar]

I have social anxiety, officially diagnosed, give me a break.

Anyway, this girl, I told her I wanted to meet her smoking hot friend, and she brought her tonight with her. Very beautiful. Didn't have much of a chance to speak to her though because other guys were orbiting her. I asked her if she will be at a place I go regulary tomorrow, and she said probably. I can probably speak with her better tomorrow. She's a solid 9 and she's 19 year old.

[esperar]

OK, since I'm such a 'tard, I'm keeping all of my questions to this thread, or I'd spam the forum.

Right, on Friday night I went to a party with some friends, and met this 9, again, from Spain. We spoke a little, and blah blah, but she was with some gay guy we both know, and I didn't think she would be interested, so I didn't put too much effort in to her. At the end of the night as we are leaving, she says to me in a low voice "do you want to come home with me" I was totally in shock, and just asked her to repeat, and she didn't, and then my friends dragged me away.. Later on, I ask the gay guy if she is single, and he said she has broken up with her boyfriend recently.

Two days later I request her as a friend online, and she accepts. Should I invite her out??

No, I am not trolling, this is the life of a guy who is recovering from social anxiety. I freeze when it comes to any kind of escalation. It's really ruining things..

[xmlenigma]

(05-10-2012 06:05 PM)esperar Wrote:  

I have social anxiety, officially diagnosed, give me a break.

Anyway, this girl, I told her I wanted to meet her smoking hot friend, and she brought her tonight with her. Very beautiful. Didn't have much of a chance to speak to her though because other guys were orbiting her. I asked her if she will be at a place I go regulary tomorrow, and she said probably. I can probably speak with her better tomorrow. She's a solid 9 and she's 19 year old.

I've seen it happen. Major freezing anxieties. Where u located?

[esperar]

UK, near Liverpool.

[esperar]

I really think I may need a wingman, someone to kick my ass when I'm about to freeze. It's ridiculous. There are guys out there who don't look anywhere near as good as me getting poon, and I'm freezing when it comes to any kind of escalation.

[esperar]

OK, tomorrow night, the 9 from Spain I met at a party almost two weeks ago said she will come and see me at a bar. I swear to God, if I keep freezing, I'm gonna scream!!

[esperar]

She brought friends without telling me, so I knew I wasn't getting any, so I didn't waste too much time on her. I'm assuming lots of Spanish women are like this? I think it's because they haven't known me for very long..