[Spike]

I know some people have dual personalities, like Schizophrenia or whatever, but is it possible to have dual "looks"?

I find that in Holland, I'm as ugly as Danny Devito,
but when I cross over the border to say, Cambodia or the Philippines, suddenly i take on the shape of Brad Pitt.
Is it possible that an actual physical transformation can take place by crossing an international border?

[Amour Fou]

... you mean like this?

[speakeasy]

(04-30-2012 05:50 PM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

I know some people have dual personalities, like Schizophrenia or whatever, but is it possible to have dual "looks"?

I find that in Holland, I'm as ugly as Danny Devito,
but when I cross over the border to say, Cambodia or the Philippines, suddenly i take on the shape of Brad Pitt.
Is it possible that an actual physical transformation can take place by crossing an international border?

No physical transformation. Just means that Cambodia and the Philippines(and probably Peru) are your market. As they say in real estate, "Location! Location! Location!"

[Keyser Söze]

I think the really interesting thing to know, would be how much of that difference is related to an actual difference in the way females perceive you physically in two different countries and how much of that difference is related to a change in your inner game when in a different environment.

[Kish]

(04-30-2012 05:50 PM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

Is it possible that an actual physical transformation can take place by crossing an international border?

Not just international borders. In DC I can change venues and turn from Steve Urkel into Denzel Washington. You just have to find your fish bowl.

[oldnemesis]

(04-30-2012 05:50 PM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

Is it possible that an actual physical transformation can take place by crossing an international border?

What you describe is not a physical transformation, it is mental transformation. It is based on your estimation of your value, and therefore the role you take. Think of yourself entering the workplace when you're a janitor there, how'd you go? Now think you're the CEO - same you, same environment, but a different role - would you behavior change? Your feeling of acceptance? Different roles, different behavior, different actions.

If I were you I'd visit a place where you think you have low value and tried some mind altering medicine like MDMA (which, before being banned, was used in psychiatry). It will show you that those barriers you have in your head are your own creations. And once you got rid of those you won't have those issues. You'll move to the next level and will have different issues, which would be harder to overcome.

Not to mention you're from Holland, this place is fucking depressing. Every time I'm in Amsterdam it is cloudy, rainy and windy. Too bad since I kinda like the typical Dutch female face. I'd spend a week there if the weather wasn't so shitty. So it may actually contribute to your general mood.

[RichieP]

I think different parts of your personality can control your physiology differently, to the point you actually look somewhat different.

Like when you're depressed/anxious you'll be hunched over, maybe some muscles will be extra tight, holding tension, some will be slack.
Then when you're being assertive or positive or confident, different muscles will be toned, and others will be relaxed.

It makes a difference, especially in your face, where you have 50 different muscles, that will all be in various levels of tension depending on your emotional state. You do "look different" (because you physically are, to an extent) in different emotional states.

That said dude - you're talking about 3rd world vs 1st world girls and how they perceive you. Hint: goodlookingness isnt the cause of the difference... its the fact that to girls in Cambodia/Phils, you're exotic, white and swimming in $$$.

[ManAbout]

(04-30-2012 05:50 PM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

I find that in Holland, I'm as ugly as Danny Devito,

You appear to be average to above average for a Dutch guy. I don't see why you would have a problem in Holland. Dutch women seem very open minded, I have seen them with all kinds of guys.

[Spike]

Hahaha !!

I can't believe how many playa's fell for this one. It was a joke of course !

Hahaha, Danny de Vito. The little fella is like a foot shorther than me.

But seriously : there are some good replies about the fishbowl theory to my trollish post.

@Manabout, I know my looks are ok in Holland but the problem here is that i don't like the girls here anymore. I try to like them but have a hard time with it. Exceptions apply of course. I might look for a job in tourism and get the fuck out of here again.

[Seduction Sutra]

(04-30-2012 05:50 PM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

I find that in Holland, I'm as ugly as Danny Devito,
but when I cross over the border to say, Cambodia or the Philippines, suddenly i take on the shape of Brad Pitt.
Is it possible that an actual physical transformation can take place by crossing an international border?

In short, no. Since you are white, girls in Asia will love you not because of your looks, but because of you being white. Asian girls equate white guys with wealth and status.

[Hades]

I find the same thing with me seasonally.
In the winter, I turn into a cut and cheerful Nordic prince.
In the summer, I'm a peeling, neckbearded, and chubby schlub.
Might be a good idea to take notes so you can optimize your look if you care to.

[Moma]

(05-01-2012 02:25 AM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

Hahaha !!

I can't believe how many playa's fell for this one. It was a joke of course !

Hahaha, Danny de Vito. The little fella is like a foot shorther than me.

But seriously : there are some good replies about the fishbowl theory to my trollish post.

@Manabout, I know my looks are ok in Holland but the problem here is that i don't like the girls here anymore. I try to like them but have a hard time with it. Exceptions apply of course. I might look for a job in tourism and get the fuck out of here again.

Is it their looks or their personalities that you don't like? What type of lizards do you actually like?

[Spike]

(05-01-2012 06:25 AM)Moma Wrote:  

(05-01-2012 02:25 AM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

Hahaha !!

I can't believe how many playa's fell for this one. It was a joke of course !

Hahaha, Danny de Vito. The little fella is like a foot shorther than me.

But seriously : there are some good replies about the fishbowl theory to my trollish post.

@Manabout, I know my looks are ok in Holland but the problem here is that i don't like the girls here anymore. I try to like them but have a hard time with it. Exceptions apply of course. I might look for a job in tourism and get the fuck out of here again.

Is it their looks or their personalities that you don't like? What type of lizards do you actually like?

Its both. Ofcourse there are some hot girls around but a lot of girls are a bit too husky and or uninteresting.
I prefer Asian chicks or Latinas now. Black girls also catch my interest more and more lately. It might have to do with the fact that i dislike Holland as a whole and don't wanna think about a future here. I want to get back on the road and bang exotic chicks. Making new money might take too long so i'm aiming at something in the tourist sector abroad. I still have to check everything out but i will do that soon.
I'm sure a guy who has traveled alone around the world in 42 countries can find a job as a tourist guide or something without diplomas for it.

Other options:
1 - work some fulltime job, build a homebase with house and car etc etc and try to save a few hundreds bucks a month -Downside -It will take ages before i make enough to travel to south america and dance the reggeaton again even if i go to a cheap country like Ecuador. I still need at least 3000 dollar for a flight and 6 week stay. After that the whole circus begins again.

2 - work abroad in Canada (oilsands) to make lots of money quick - I've looked into it but i'm not sure if its for me.

3 - Learn up on game and public speaking and give bootcamps in Holland. My book might give me a name for myself - downside- Its a small market here but it could work out since there are not many alternatives. It will be an unsteady living from month to month with a highly variable income.

4 - Work abroad as a tourist guide in some foreign country - upsides I'm in a foreign country where i have to move around and can have multiple gf's or play the field, i have an basic income and free board in a hotelroom. downsides - I'll probably work with older tourists and have to salve all their trouble from money lost/robbed to hospital visits etc etc

For now Option 4 sounds best to me. It also gives me the opportunity to pack my stuff and leave without having a my own place and car to pay for.