[Eddie Winslow]

I did a few searches but was not able to find anything directly related this - I apologize if this has been hit upon before.

Older dudes who are trying to meet college girls will have to deal with the logistical issues of college girls, especially if the girls are in a more secluded campus or college town. Many girls don't have cars, have plenty of local nightlife, are too socially insecure to go on a "big girl" date outside campus, etc. It's tough (for me at least).

Here's my background: I graduated a couple years ago from U of Maryland and now live in Northern VA (for those not familiar with DC, College Park is a 25-30 minute drive or a painful 45+ minute metro ride). I meet current UMD students all of the time when I am out in DC or MD and connect well once they find out I'm a recent alum. However, logistics make it tough to close the deal on a ONS if we meet in DC and nearly impossible to convince them to spend the night in VA.

I met a 9 (UMD student) at a rave over the weekend and we were all over each other the entire night. Couldn't close, but we exchanged numbers and she enthusiasticlly agreed to a date on Friday. Yes, I know Friday is not ideal for the first date, but I don't think college chicks value their weekends as much as young professionals since they can get fucked up any day of the week (near campus) with minimal consequences, and schoolwork can make many weekdays off limits.

Here's the real question: should I follow standard middle game and try to get her to come to me on Friday (huge commitment on her part), or should I propose meeting her on campus, hitting the bars, and try ending the night at her spot? If I propose VA, she declines, and then I suggest I come to her, does that sound like I am catering too much to her? How do all of you deal with shitty college logistics?

[TopRock]

I recommend reading Kathleen Bogle's Hooking Up: Sex, Dating, and Relationships on Campus to understand the American college girl mentality and the type of game you should run. The tl;dr version is that college girls don't go on dates during the semester (but they do when school is out during the summer) and are terrified of strangers. Best bet is to have a mutual friend who goes to that school (preferably male) and go for the ONS. At least that is what has worked for me most consistently.

I really wish I'd learned all this and about game when I was in college (in Canada, but in a very Americanized university). They should get Roosh to design the curriculum for high school sex ed classes.

[Giovonny]

Try to get her to come to you first as a "compliance test"

You really need to live closer to campus!

30-45 minutes is to far away.

You want to be hanging in the same bars, clubs, coffee shops, bookstores, markets, mall, etc. as these college girls. You wanna be able to walk to your place.

Location, location, location!

Logistics, logistics, logistics!

[Eddie Winslow]

(04-16-2012 01:54 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

Try to get her to come to you first as a "compliance test"

You really need to live closer to campus!

I like the idea of a compliance test. If I get her alone by me, it's in the bag. But despite her high interest, I am not anticipating that this will work out, and if it does, I'm sure she would bring at least one friend to make sure she doesn't get murdered.

As for living near campus, there are other universities in perfect striking distance, so I don't plan on moving. The ONS opportunity is gone, but the interest is there for sure. I know there has to be some older guys here who have taken a college girl out or at least banged one sometime after the initial meetup.

The distance is not at all ideal, but doable if we are motivated. This girl is cool and a legitimate video vixen-looking 9 (and would definitely be the hottest girl I've ever put my penis in), so I want to at least make a sincere effort in meeting up. I should mention she's 22 and graduating in a month, not some stupid 18 year-old kid. Also, I still have a couple friends over there.

[Giovonny]

(04-17-2012 10:19 AM)americanbk Wrote:  

I know there has to be some older guys here who have taken a college girl out or at least banged one sometime after the initial meetup.

I've done it many times. Do you have a specific question about it?

Get her out, get her drunk, get her back to your place (or hers)..

[Eddie Winslow]

(04-17-2012 10:31 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(04-17-2012 10:19 AM)americanbk Wrote:  

I know there has to be some older guys here who have taken a college girl out or at least banged one sometime after the initial meetup.

I've done it many times. Do you have a specific question about it?

Get her out, get her drunk, get her back to your place (or hers)..

I think my best bet is to head out towards her. My main questions are about isolation.

Do you switch anything up in particular from your standard first date game?
Do you still refuse if she insists on meeting at a crowded college bar which is probably full of her friends and other cockblocks, even though that's what college kids do?
Do you change up what time you meet?
If she invites you to a pre-game or a party, do you attend?

My game was basically non-existant in college and now that I'm 25, strategy seems like it would be different than it used to be. I appreciate your insight, Gio.

[Giovonny]

Don't over-think it. Just go to whatever place you guys decide on and have a great time. Thats all you should be concerned with. Having a fucking blast with her.

If you can get back to her place, great. If you are too drunk to drive, maybe you can crash at her place.

Just have a great time out with her and don't worry about the bang. The bang will happen because you guys had fun together.

(04-17-2012 10:50 AM)americanbk Wrote:  

Do you switch anything up in particular from your standard first date game?

No, not really.

(04-17-2012 10:50 AM)americanbk Wrote:  

Do you still refuse if she insists on meeting at a crowded college bar which is probably full of her friends and other cockblocks, even though that's what college kids do?

If you refuse that, you better have a better idea that she will agree to. What's so bad about meeting her at a bar?

(04-17-2012 10:50 AM)americanbk Wrote:  

Do you change up what time you meet?

Only if you need to.

(04-17-2012 10:50 AM)americanbk Wrote:  

If she invites you to a pre-game or a party, do you attend?

Sure, why not?

When you guys are tipsy and touching each other and making out, then you can worry about isolation. Then, it should be a simple as a taxi ride back to her place or yours.

Having fun with her is the first step!

[Eddie Winslow]

Your response made me realize how badly I'm over analyzing this. I'll just head out that way and have a good time. Thanks dude.

[Giovonny]

Ya, don't over-analyze! Focus on fun!

[Eddie Winslow]

(04-17-2012 01:04 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

Ya, don't over-analyze! Focus on fun!

Just an update - I've been banging this girl for a few weeks now. I've also gotten her to take the 40 minute ride out to my place a couple times. Thanks Gio!

[Tuthmosis]

College-Girl Logistic, by Tuthmosis™:

1. Take her for drink(s) near your place.
2. Make her laugh and be interesting.
3. Bring her home.



EDIT: Just realized this was an old thread that's been bumped. Glad to hear it's working out.

[Screwston]

(05-25-2012 10:45 AM)americanbk Wrote:  

(04-17-2012 01:04 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

Ya, don't over-analyze! Focus on fun!

Just an update - I've been banging this girl for a few weeks now. I've also gotten her to take the 40 minute ride out to my place a couple times. Thanks Gio!

Hey man that put a smile on my face this morning it's great to read and hear about players completing the mission with a girl who is hotter than old lizards they've fucked. I know that feeling.

Gio and mechanico are very smart cats. They both say to just have fun with girls and the bang will come. Simple yet true