[HiFlo]

I notice quite a few girls will either tell you, their friends, or whatnot that "im single and loving it."

I could never decode what this means. I found that this usually means they got out of a LTR not too long ago. But I'm confused whether it means, "yeah I'm sleepin around a lot" or if it means "I'm insecure (maybe I got dumped by my last bf) and I'm tell myself I'm happy being alone because it boost my confidence." Or does it mean "I'm an attention whore."

What has been your experience? If a girl tells you she's single and loving it, do you have a response that works well? Do you adapt your game at all?

[hoops330]

(04-15-2012 08:11 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  

I notice quite a few girls will either tell you, their friends, or whatnot that "im single and loving it."

I could never decode what this means. I found that this usually means they got out of a LTR not too long ago. But I'm confused whether it means, "yeah I'm sleepin around a lot" or if it means "I'm insecure (maybe I got dumped by my last bf) and I'm tell myself I'm happy being alone because it boost my confidence." Or does it mean "I'm an attention whore."

What has been your experience? If a girl tells you she's single and loving it, do you have a response that works well? Do you adapt your game at all?

I generally think it is the latter. She was dumped and trying to convince herself that she is better off being single...another option you left out is that she has nothing to offer the opposite sex and instead of recognizing this she has convinced herself that she loves being single.
It is really hard to make a judgement based entirely on this quote. It could mean that she wants a relationship but doesn't want to appear to vulnerable or eager....or on the other hand that is truly is a slut and loves being single and hooking up with a countless number of men.

[El Rey]

Seriously? It means she's riding the cock carousel and playing other chumps for free dinner at least 3 nights a week.

[Sebastian]

Some people starts saying shits about themselves that nobody asked about.
this is very common one. 'I am non-judgmental'

[Gmac]

(04-16-2012 02:05 AM)El Rey Wrote:  

Seriously? It means she's riding the cock carousel and playing other chumps for free dinner at least 3 nights a week.

^

[el mechanico]

Single and loving it = I went sky-diving and zip-lining in the last 7 days, got some new profile pics and it didn't cost me a dime.

[Moma]

I've stopped listening to what lizards say. I just look for the opening in there that notifies me that they want to fcuk.

[Bad Hussar]

It means she's still auditioning.

Even if a woman tells you she is absolutely happy being single, and is definitely not looking, if you want to get with here just ignore what she says. It is a rather obvious shit test. So obvious, that I caught one girl who said this to me pretty obviously glancing at me to gauge my reaction while saying her line. not very smooth. It's the female equivalent of an extremely corny pick-up line a guy may use.

[el mechanico]

Stolen. I'm going to start saying "single and loving it"

Last night a girl asked me "What's going on with us?" I didn't answer her. Think I will text that right now.

[PDX]

Depends.

If she's young and attractive, it means she's playing the field.

If she's average, ugly, or 30+, it's just her rationalization hamster consoling herself on her future years of cat-womanhood.

[HiFlo]

(04-16-2012 11:17 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Stolen. I'm going to start saying "single and loving it"

Last night a girl asked me "What's going on with us?" I didn't answer her. Think I will text that right now.

so what was girls' response when u told em you're single and loving it ??

[el mechanico]

(04-19-2012 06:09 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  

(04-16-2012 11:17 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Stolen. I'm going to start saying "single and loving it"

Last night a girl asked me "What's going on with us?" I didn't answer her. Think I will text that right now.

so what was girls' response when u told em you're single and loving it ??

I'm going to pay special attention to that cock when I see you! lol

[Caligula]

(04-16-2012 11:17 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Stolen. I'm going to start saying "single and loving it"

Last night a girl asked me "What's going on with us?" I didn't answer her. Think I will text that right now.

Love it! Will start using this. I never had a rock solid response to variations of 'what's going on with your love life'.

[el mechanico]

I'm slowly learning that my game is transforming into what would be considered trolling here.

My texts look like this..

Lol

Make me some money

How single are you today?

Single and loving it!

Come bone me.

You just want some tail.

I was just thinking about adding a blast from Dash..

Def Imo

[Aureo]

She has a major in dickology with a PhD in slutonomy and is currently manager at Sluts'R'Us Co.

[snoop]

for the most part in my experience when people announce things like this they are full of shit.

has anyone ever told you, "I'm really funny" and ended up actually being funny?

If someone tells you how smart they are does that usually end up being the case?

[calex]

(04-15-2012 08:11 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  

What has been your experience? If a girl tells you she's single and loving it, do you have a response that works well? Do you adapt your game at all?

(04-16-2012 01:05 PM)PDX Wrote:  

Depends.

If she's young and attractive, it means she's playing the field.

If she's average, ugly, or 30+, it's just her rationalization hamster consoling herself on her future years of cat-womanhood.

I think this is the only 100% valid answer on the topic.

As for what to do with the statement part, i just ignore it, like the rest of relationship status statements girls make. I don't see how it concerns me.