[Roardog]

Winter is causing so many flakes right now. Every other girl bails on me because she's got a cold.

At least they've got the decency to let me know rather than rocking up and causing me to waste my time with a girl who isn't feeling it and risk getting sick myself.

[StrikeBack]

Yeah the winter bug is ruining many a night outs for me at the moment.

Just had one who was very enthusiastic both in person and over TXT, then didn't show up. Not even a flake TXT, nor any response to my ping a few days later.

Shame, she has epic tits.

Ended up meeting a hotter foreign girl where I was going that night though.

[~wrIghter~]

Was about to go on a day 2 but she flaked, luckily before I left home. "shit dude, i think i'ma do my own thing today. my bad. see you" its quite similar to the first time she flaked (before we met up) but I really don't give a shit anymore. I just replied "okay".

[~wrIghter~]

changed her mind, says I can come through "as a friend" . After telling me she can't kiss and such (ASD/boyfriend shit test). I'm still going and playing it as if she didn't mean it. The worse that can happen is that she rejects my advances.

[OregonToSoCal]

(07-08-2015 05:03 PM)~wrIghter~ Wrote:  

Was about to go on a day 2 but she flaked, luckily before I left home. "shit dude, i think i'ma do my own thing today. my bad. see you" its quite similar to the first time she flaked (before we met up) but I really don't give a shit anymore. I just replied "okay".

Was that actually a quote from what she texted you?? If a girl sent me that she would be blocked/deleted and wiped from my memory. It's rude, dismissive and arrogant. At least make up an excuse like her parakeet died and she's so bummed she can't make it out. "yeah no problem, i'ma gonna delete your sorry ass from all memory"

[~wrIghter~]

Hardcore ASD, I played it non needy but I'm just giving a last effort. I'll report back in a bit. More practice for me.

[STriple-R]

Had a date yesterday with this Tinderchick, 25 year old 7. Fun but short (time was our enemy because of work) date at my place, makeout at the end.

Recieved a text a few hours ago she had fun but I was her first and last Tinderdatesnd she does't feel like meeting up again. I replied with "We could just hang out and have fun, doesnt have too be anything serious." Which she replied with "True".

Guess thats the end of it. Shame, would've liked to bang her.

[~wrIghter~]

Hardcore ASD, I played it non needy but I'm just giving a last effort. I'll report back in a bit. More practice for me.

[obrero]

I just got flaked on.

Tinder girl, its the second time she's flaked. I assume she flaked because I did a lousy job of chatting her up, building comfort w/ text message, she is so damned boring we have nothing to chat about and it's like talking to a brick wall. Poor game on my part.

I texted her earlier in the day to confirm our meetup, no response. Her first flake she at least had the decency to text me with some excuse about work.

[obrero]

This made me laugh. No kidding she had a pic of her mangled hand that got attacked by a raccoon.

[OregonToSoCal]

Bit by a raccoon??

[Suits]

Just got the funniest text from a girl who had I'd gotten in contact with via online dating. She was fairly eager to meet me previously, which makes that text I got a bit of a shocker:

"Sorry, I don't wanna meet up any more. Good luck with u."

[~wrIghter~]

(07-13-2015 12:49 AM)Suits Wrote:  

Just got the funniest text from a girl who had I'd gotten in contact with via online dating. She was fairly eager to meet me previously, which makes that text I got a bit of a shocker:

"Sorry, I don't wanna meet up any more. Good luck with u."

I hate shit like that. That's the reality though...unfortunately.

[Spiritus]

Spend the previous night with a girl I had some dates with. She's still a virgin, was on her period and didn't want her first time when menstruating, so nothing more than BJ. Alright, I can respect that.

Get home today. Texted this girl who was supposed to come over. Told me she's gonna flake since she had her period.

Fml, fuck mother nature and fuck lousy excuses.

[Vincent Chase]

Now I don't do Monday night days in general as girls do usually flake and the ones who go on them go home early because they feel it's the start of the week and are under stress, even the ones who have part time jobs/don't even work, but here's an example of another retarded online girl.

She said she was busy last week but suggested we go for drinks Monday night (a week later). I said fine let's talk close to the time. She texted me over the weekend asking if we're still on for Monday and seemed quite warm saying what if we're neighbours and this kind of stuff as we live close by. I told her let's meet at this and this bar, this was a day prior.

Come Monday sent her a message at around 1pm of "see you later ". No response. I deleted her. Out of curiosity I sent her a message an hour before with something like asking her if she knows the way how to get there. She texted me back an hour later with something like "Er no please stop messaging me". I responded with a "who are you?". A flaky girl with a cunt of an attitude, a disgusting specimen indeed.

You have to realise she's only about a 5 too. Good luck to people like her.

[YossariansRight]

(07-20-2015 05:12 PM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  

Now I don't do Monday night days in general as girls do usually flake and the ones who go on them go home early because they feel it's the start of the week and are under stress, even the ones who have part time jobs/don't even work, but here's an example of another retarded online girl.

She said she was busy last week but suggested we go for drinks Monday night (a week later). I said fine let's talk close to the time. She texted me over the weekend asking if we're still on for Monday and seemed quite warm saying what if we're neighbours and this kind of stuff as we live close by. I told her let's meet at this and this bar, this was a day prior.

Come Monday sent her a message at around 1pm of "see you later ". No response. I deleted her. Out of curiosity I sent her a message an hour before with something like asking her if she knows the way how to get there. She texted me back an hour later with something like "Er no please stop messaging me". I responded with a "who are you?". A flaky girl with a cunt of an attitude, a disgusting specimen indeed.

You have to realise she's only about a 5 too. Good luck to people like her.

Sundays, Mondays and Tuesdays are VASTLY UNDERRATED for gaming. I've always found the fixation on Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays to border on comical.

You should have nexted after the bitch went ghost. Nice recovery though. The 5-6.5 range are THE WORST. They pretend think they're "hot" and many times act/behave worse than 8+'s. They're acting out their "Getting even with 'them'" fantasies, whoever "them" are. Avoid them; you lower your SMV by wasting your time on them.

[~wrIghter~]

I'm back, this time flaked on by my Asian 7 from ig. Had a meet set for five but she hits me back saying that she feels all over the place because everyone wants to hang, she asked if I would be down for Sunday (No thanks). I'd usually give girls more of a chance but this was almost too expected as I had been getting evasive answers before.

She text me after the time I had confirmed for TODAY:

"Feeling all over the place, everybody wants to hang: (I have so many options, you're not top priority)"
Self explanatory
"You said you'll be there Sunday?" (Maybe I can fit you into my schedule. Just not today).
Never mentioned Sunday, set it up for today and she waits until the time for the meet has passed to follow up.

[Vincent Chase]

I double booked Sunday night. Both girls flaked, one girl flaked on Sunday morning saying she has so little money she can't even get to the bar, second one flaked an hour before saying she's still with friends. About 60-70% of my online dates flake on the first date.

[~wrIghter~]

(08-03-2015 01:00 AM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  

I double booked Sunday night. Both girls flaked, one girl flaked on Sunday morning saying she has so little money she can't even get to the bar, second one flaked an hour before saying she's still with friends. About 60-70% of my online dates flake on the first date.

I won't reward flaky behavior from these chicks. If they flake and don't reach out to make it up, they don't deserve my time.

[STriple-R]

(08-03-2015 01:00 AM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  

I double booked Sunday night. Both girls flaked, one girl flaked on Sunday morning saying she has so little money she can't even get to the bar, second one flaked an hour before saying she's still with friends. About 60-70% of my online dates flake on the first date.

Is this in the US? Just wondering if there's a difference between countrys. My flake rate is no higher than 20%.

EDIT: I was too quick asking. Just saw your location.

[blackaldr]

I'm in the UK and online girls seem to flake all the time. It is annoying when they change their mind right when you are supposed to meet them. Happens way too often.

[~wrIghter~]

(08-03-2015 08:44 AM)blackaldr Wrote:  

I'm in the UK and online girls seem to flake all the time. It is annoying when they change their mind right when you are supposed to meet them. Happens way too often.

Its a big thing here in the states, even with that attraction factor. These girls have loads of options and some are just afraid to meet dudes from online...despite being on dating apps.

[OregonToSoCal]

^ And to add to that point even if you do get one out, have a great date and somehow don't get the bang good luck getting them out on a second date. And why would they when there's an endless stream of potentially 'better' options waiting for them.

[Vincent Chase]

(08-03-2015 05:37 AM)STriple-R Wrote:  

(08-03-2015 01:00 AM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  

I double booked Sunday night. Both girls flaked, one girl flaked on Sunday morning saying she has so little money she can't even get to the bar, second one flaked an hour before saying she's still with friends. About 60-70% of my online dates flake on the first date.

Is this in the US? Just wondering if there's a difference between countrys. My flake rate is no higher than 20%.

EDIT: I was too quick asking. Just saw your location.

In the UK.

[robreke]

(08-03-2015 10:47 AM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

^ And to add to that point even if you do get one out, have a great date and somehow don't get the bang good luck getting them out on a second date. And why would they when there's an endless stream of potentially 'better' options waiting for them.

Hell, sometimes when you get the bang they go ghost. Of the girls I've banged this year, 3 of them were quivering and moaning all manner of 'holy Jesus' and 2 said "that was amazing" or something to that effect afterward.

Never could get back together with these 3...though I only tried half heartedly with one. Even though she was cute...I got a slight STD vibe off her.

I think it had to do with the 'slut regret' as I got all of these girls drunk and banged them good, on the first date, with some sexual repartee thrown in.

I'm starting to think if you bang on the second or third date ( provided you can get them on these) it's easier to convert her into a long term FB than if you get her drunk and bang on the first date.

Actually, I have 2 examples of this so far this year: One girl I hit on the second date, another on the 3rd date. Both of them text me and want to continue to get together. Though I'm letting the one I banged on the 3rd date slip off of the robreke sled to be left behind in the snow as she was kind of disappointing when I "unwrapped the package".

Point is, these days, banging a girl on a first date doesn't even assure anything.

Back in the day, before the proliferation of smart phones, instagram, Facebook, dating sites, male thirst, etc.....it used to be the rule that you had to get 2 or 3 dates to 'lock' a girl in somewhat.

Forget that. These days, replace "dates" with "bangs" as in, you have to get 2 or 3 bangs to lock them in now.