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How to talk to girls that make no effort in a conversation but show interest?
04-11-2012, 03:35 PM
You will have to carry her and the conversation yourself. Then go for the date quickly. It's a waste of time to try to get a huge dialogue going. Get in a few messages then go for the date.
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04-11-2012, 05:54 PM
Sure you can. Trust me when I say you don't want constant interaction with these girls up until you fly in. Pique their interest, tell them when you'll be in town / exchange information. Hit her up a week before your trip and you're good.
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How to talk to girls that make no effort in a conversation but show interest?
04-11-2012, 06:12 PM
I agree with Gmac but out of curiosity did you try asking her things like, "whats the most embarrassing thing that's ever happened to you?" etc. just to see if she'd give you more of a response then a short yes or no?
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How to talk to girls that make no effort in a conversation but show interest?
04-12-2012, 04:50 PM
This is extremely common with girls online (and during the first 10-15 of an in person approach). They make no effort and expect you to carry the conversation
Avoid asking her too many "interview" type questions, these can bore her.
Try to be fun and flirty without getting too sexual. Make jokes, tell her about something you're doing that's interesting, make amusing comments
As Gmac says, it's important to not engage in longwinded messaging with these girls. Build some attraction, get their info and keep a sense of mystery about yourself.
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How to talk to girls that make no effort in a conversation but show interest?
04-12-2012, 05:39 PM
My old roommate and I had a name for these kinds of chicks: deadbeats.
This was before the internet though, so we were talking about chicks who, in offline conversations, just don't bring anything to the table. They stick around, so they're probably interested, but they just don't contribute. Basically, they're deadbeats.