Hey Gents, - Know this is a fucking long post but any help and advice would be MUCHO appreciated. (I just moved to the DC area recently (fortunately/unfortunately) , and being completely new to the area I don't have a whole bunch of amigos and know this is the BEST place I can go for senorita advice, muahahahaha! Haha ![[Image: idea.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/new/idea.gif)
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Im making this post because I was trying to get information on the best direction to go with this. I met a girl in DC (german au pair) right before Christmas, and she was a lot of fun blah blah blah. We ended up doing some stuff, and I moved up here to find work shortly after. When I moved up, I spent three days with her but then she weirded out and I got ljbf'd. I didnt talk to her for a while, and just focused on working (waiting tables until I can get a 9-5). Later on a couple weeks later we hung out in DC during the day, and again a couple weeks later (this is now a couple weeks ago). Anyways, she wanted to hang out this week (we've only seen each other twice since I moved up here which was in February). I had her over at my place last time and we did Bp/watched a movie, but she would barely let me hold her hand so I couldn't escalate/make a move really. (We did some shit the first couple weeks we were hanging out.
Anyways, so things were rough the first couple months of waiting tables and not being so focused on the job search. The first couple weeks were hanging out all the time and then after the LJBF-barely obviously. Moving to a completely new area, I didnt know a whole lot of people n needless to say got a bit needy-which I refigured later and learned my mistake. Anyways, things have gotten a lot better for me lately in the last couple weeks after getting back on some ADD meds, working out, the job search, and even got an SNL last friday night in DC when I went out with some girl friends of mine.
Ok, anyways-so with things getting better, I've had less time for peoples bullshit (and will be seeing the girl I hooked up with next week, and another german (blond as fuck, haha) this week-as well as some of the girls at work want it BADLY.-'When it rains it pours, but when it starts...it fucking snowballs/avalanches')
So anyways, I was at work thinking I'd be meeting the German blond after work-but got my cell phone taken away from some bs from one of the managers my age. When I finally get my cell phone back from work, the German blond said she couldn't meet up tonight-but the au pair has texted me. I semi-tried to maybe do something with her on Monday, she was too tired. I invited her out tuesday night for salsa (which I didnt even go to, but she doesnt know that-hehehehe), she was out late for work and so I just didnt text her back (again not dealing with BS) and she couldnt come and didnt text back later that night after her first one saying the previous.
Now she texts me and this is what happens,
Her-fool fool fool (my n name for her)
me-just off work, wats up?
h-i actually wanna go out tonight but im still at a friends soccer game. its fucking freezing n i cant feel my feet anymore lol. hope everything is bueno
m-you're retarded, we could maybe go out. i dunno wat/how late things r open that run late/under 21 for your baby ass. haha
h-shut up asshoooole. a friend is waiting for me in dc...i think club eden. but im still in x hahaha. when do u have to work tomorrow?
m-again. oh lord. not playing these games. 4
h-what?
m-nada. player.
me-is the friend another au pair or some dude. haha
h-dude
m-nice. ill let u be then playa, got party peoples in adams mo. have fun in eden. adios.
h-whats wrong with u?![[Image: tongue.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/tongue.gif)
h-(minutes later)well, have fun fool
(me like 30 minutes later)
m-if u already had a boy to hang out with tonight, why would u text me fool? jw
h-i didnt had a boy to hang out tonight! i just know that hes there tonight. why are american guys so complicated?
m-we're not u fool, n im not every other guy danke. sweetheart, ive told u a bunch-you really dont know me. lol. maybe its just your wording. haha. uve never seen me out or with my friends. (we went to tattoo once, but that was it as far as going out)
h-i never said I know! But whatever...Im going to bed. good night.
m-u fool, lol. thats the point, i want u to. im saying my life n things r making moves for the better (u met me at a really difficult/bad time in mine). u shoulda come to dc to see me.. bueno noche.
m-n lets do tomorrow night, out. adios
Now, I know this is a long as fuck post. But any advice on where I should go from here? Should I message her to explain where Im coming from? (been trying to hang out with her or offering times but shes always tired, has work, yadda yadda yadda-and I just dont want excuses anymore. I dont need em now that things are getting better and meeting more people, but I would like to pull the trigger on this one. why not? -Also, not playing second fiddle to someone else, etc. I basically thought she was at some dudes soccer game, and then was like hey I maybe wanna hang out-oh wait, I have another dude waiting for me in dc. I that point, IM like, wtf?! Ya know what I mean?) Which route should I take and what do you recommend? Fully explain things, or be non-reactive and don't even really mention it- ( or message her and explain this and say you either wanna hang out or you don't, im not worried about either. If you don't thats fine, if you do-lets go out tonight and have the fucking time of our lives living it up, etc.) Where did I maybe go wrong? I've got other girls on the backburner and forefront, so please dont tell me BE MORE ALPHA or some shit like that that wont help. CONSTRUCTIVE criticism please. Thanks for everything guys.
-Knowledge
)Im making this post because I was trying to get information on the best direction to go with this. I met a girl in DC (german au pair) right before Christmas, and she was a lot of fun blah blah blah. We ended up doing some stuff, and I moved up here to find work shortly after. When I moved up, I spent three days with her but then she weirded out and I got ljbf'd. I didnt talk to her for a while, and just focused on working (waiting tables until I can get a 9-5). Later on a couple weeks later we hung out in DC during the day, and again a couple weeks later (this is now a couple weeks ago). Anyways, she wanted to hang out this week (we've only seen each other twice since I moved up here which was in February). I had her over at my place last time and we did Bp/watched a movie, but she would barely let me hold her hand so I couldn't escalate/make a move really. (We did some shit the first couple weeks we were hanging out.
Anyways, so things were rough the first couple months of waiting tables and not being so focused on the job search. The first couple weeks were hanging out all the time and then after the LJBF-barely obviously. Moving to a completely new area, I didnt know a whole lot of people n needless to say got a bit needy-which I refigured later and learned my mistake. Anyways, things have gotten a lot better for me lately in the last couple weeks after getting back on some ADD meds, working out, the job search, and even got an SNL last friday night in DC when I went out with some girl friends of mine.
Ok, anyways-so with things getting better, I've had less time for peoples bullshit (and will be seeing the girl I hooked up with next week, and another german (blond as fuck, haha) this week-as well as some of the girls at work want it BADLY.-'When it rains it pours, but when it starts...it fucking snowballs/avalanches')
So anyways, I was at work thinking I'd be meeting the German blond after work-but got my cell phone taken away from some bs from one of the managers my age. When I finally get my cell phone back from work, the German blond said she couldn't meet up tonight-but the au pair has texted me. I semi-tried to maybe do something with her on Monday, she was too tired. I invited her out tuesday night for salsa (which I didnt even go to, but she doesnt know that-hehehehe), she was out late for work and so I just didnt text her back (again not dealing with BS) and she couldnt come and didnt text back later that night after her first one saying the previous.
Now she texts me and this is what happens,
Her-fool fool fool (my n name for her)
me-just off work, wats up?
h-i actually wanna go out tonight but im still at a friends soccer game. its fucking freezing n i cant feel my feet anymore lol. hope everything is bueno
m-you're retarded, we could maybe go out. i dunno wat/how late things r open that run late/under 21 for your baby ass. haha
h-shut up asshoooole. a friend is waiting for me in dc...i think club eden. but im still in x hahaha. when do u have to work tomorrow?
m-again. oh lord. not playing these games. 4
h-what?
m-nada. player.
me-is the friend another au pair or some dude. haha
h-dude
m-nice. ill let u be then playa, got party peoples in adams mo. have fun in eden. adios.
h-whats wrong with u?
h-(minutes later)well, have fun fool
(me like 30 minutes later)
m-if u already had a boy to hang out with tonight, why would u text me fool? jw
h-i didnt had a boy to hang out tonight! i just know that hes there tonight. why are american guys so complicated?
m-we're not u fool, n im not every other guy danke. sweetheart, ive told u a bunch-you really dont know me. lol. maybe its just your wording. haha. uve never seen me out or with my friends. (we went to tattoo once, but that was it as far as going out)
h-i never said I know! But whatever...Im going to bed. good night.
m-u fool, lol. thats the point, i want u to. im saying my life n things r making moves for the better (u met me at a really difficult/bad time in mine). u shoulda come to dc to see me.
. bueno noche.m-n lets do tomorrow night, out. adios
Now, I know this is a long as fuck post. But any advice on where I should go from here? Should I message her to explain where Im coming from? (been trying to hang out with her or offering times but shes always tired, has work, yadda yadda yadda-and I just dont want excuses anymore. I dont need em now that things are getting better and meeting more people, but I would like to pull the trigger on this one. why not? -Also, not playing second fiddle to someone else, etc. I basically thought she was at some dudes soccer game, and then was like hey I maybe wanna hang out-oh wait, I have another dude waiting for me in dc. I that point, IM like, wtf?! Ya know what I mean?) Which route should I take and what do you recommend? Fully explain things, or be non-reactive and don't even really mention it- ( or message her and explain this and say you either wanna hang out or you don't, im not worried about either. If you don't thats fine, if you do-lets go out tonight and have the fucking time of our lives living it up, etc.) Where did I maybe go wrong? I've got other girls on the backburner and forefront, so please dont tell me BE MORE ALPHA or some shit like that that wont help. CONSTRUCTIVE criticism please. Thanks for everything guys.
-Knowledge
