[Riker]

I met two hot southern California girls at a bar in Buenos aires. It was raining and the bars were a lot less crowded and these girls were bored out of their minds, they were watching Southpark on the big screen of the bar. I made fun of them for being in BA on their first night, stuck in a bar watching southpark, and asked them if they wanted to go to a club with me and a friend. They were down but I pulled alot of shit mistakes along the way were I didn't lead enough and I even told them what the cover was.

I'm so dumb!! Of course they wouldn't have to pay anything cause they were hot. They seemed pretty nice but my target (which I got her email address at the bar) didn't seem into me but more into my wing. But my wing didnt speak any english so they couldn't talk. I went for the friend and danced with her for a while and kissed her while dancing a couple times (not sure of target saw it, it was pretty brief). After, I started dancing and grinding some with my target (damn she was fine) and went for the kiss but I got shot down but not terribly. She let me put my hand down her back pockets and grab her hair and stuff but when I pushed for the kiss she would pull back and seemed slightly uncomfortable at times while other times having lots of fun with me. After a while they said they were going to the bathroom and they left and we hit on other girls. We never found them again.

I said a bunch of retarded things a few times, some good funny lines, but the overall pickup attempt wasn't strong. I wish I could have been more direct and maybe pushed more for the kiss but I was trying to seem semi-aggressive but relaxed at the same time like I didn't care.

So I got this girls email right, and I add her to my Facebook and I'm not sure what to do. Should I email her telling her to go to this place with me Sunday that she's going to love and then just go dancing with her or should I try and take them out during the day.... should I try and take them out to a place thats gets busy on Monday night. I have even less game then usual with the hotness factor, its lame. But at the same time theres not much competition and I feel that if I push hard theres a chance. I think her friend is more promiscuous but I want the target.

[Kona]

(10-11-2009 04:32 AM)Riker Wrote:  

I'm not sure what to do.

Tell them about you dear friend in Haleiwa.

Aloha my brother!

[lilactag]

You don't tell much about your mistakes, but just in the way you expressed above, I think you already are a bit "touched" by her in the way that you might appear "needy".
Girls in foreign countries are easier and if you didn't get them excited that night dancing with you, chances are you will never do them. Then, probably they tell themselves that if they are going to be banged, they want an argentinian boy to show them real good