[elguapo]

reading that FB exchange with two airheads just made me feel dumber.

[hydrogonian]

(10-12-2009 11:49 AM)PissedOffChicks Wrote:  

I think it's kind of funny, and sad how insecure you all are. A real man wouldn't be afraid to feel.

Actually whats funny is that you girls make the rules of the game, which expressly punish guys for "telling girls how they feel", and then are so blind to that fact that you troll forums such as this and make recommendations that are completely opposite to what makes 98% of girls respond positively to men. Thats whats funny, and sad, and annoying to people with rational, practical, and extensively field tested perspectives...

You don't know yourselves well enough, or rather maybe you do, but you are too self deceptive to acknowledge that what makes you really attracted are the guys whom you have to chase... Thats what gives you that visceral below the waist tingle.. But yet, as mothers and role models (when there is a lack of an adequate father figure) you teach boys that being nice, and sensitive, is women is what women respond to. What you want is the bad boy who eventually comes around and makes you his one and only. Thats your dream. But the bad boy that you have to chase, in an attempt to make him fall in love, is 99% of that attraction.

In reality, your limiting your boys' chances of reproducing successfully and passing on his genes. That is sad.

The world would be an easier place for men if doing what you say worked. But it doesn't, and most men pay the price for assuming this. Naturally sensitive men go without adequate intimacy for years following your advice... And when they change their perspective, everything changes for the better. It has for me and countless others. However, its contrary to how we wish the world operated. It doesn't work like this because of you.

Insecurity its not. Its just what works. And frankly, the increase in sex and intimacy leads to a pretty secure persona. Much more so than going without.

How many girls have you tried to pick up? How many have you been in a relationship with? I've been doing this for 15 years. I've been successful, and not just lucky, for about half of that time. In the first seven years, when I would tell women how I would feel, any intimate encounter was usually due to alcohol or just being in the right place at the right time. There wasn't much choice in when this would occur. Now I can choose. And yes, with quality women.

Your post reads as silly and shallow to any man who is even moderately successful with women. You should know your subject matter more thoroughly before you throw out judgments like "insecure" and "sad".

[UgSlayer]

(10-20-2009 11:36 AM)hydrogonian Wrote:  

(10-12-2009 11:49 AM)PissedOffChicks Wrote:  

I think it's kind of funny, and sad how insecure you all are. A real man wouldn't be afraid to feel.

Actually whats funny is that you girls make the rules of ..............

Pissedoffchicks has been banned for a little bit already. I don't think they'll get the message, but feel free to vent.

[hydrogonian]

Lol. Gotcha. Nah, didnt need to waste my time. But oh well, let it serve as sage advice to any other underage feminazis in training who might peruse the forum.

[CPH]

*falling for a girl* is a fully interesting topic. which has much to do with perceived value/status.

I can tell by how I truly see myself in the dating hierarchy by the girls I think "more" of and see potential relationships with (when I'd prefer being single). No game 5 years ago, any above average girl would get me going. Now it takes at least an 8 with a super personality. So I went from being low in the ladder to sitting fairly comfortably at the moment looking to trade up.

The goal though, for me at least, is to work that out of the system so its all choice. Some argue its biologically impossible, others argue you'll be a sociopath. I say its full mastery over one self. Getting there, though, is a bitch