Quote: (03-29-2012 01:23 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:
Approaching lots of girls = Improv classes
I agree with that statement.
I have a question for you: How often are you going out? IMO Most people who think of taking improv classes are doing it
instead of approaching. They use it as a way to feel like they're making progress and getting more spontaneous, without actually putting their ego on the line.
The best way to get spontaneous with girls is to just approach a lot of them. Two things will happen:
1) You'll get blown out a lot. At first it'll hurt, but gradually you'll stop caring. Once you stop caring about getting blown out as much, then you'll be much more comfortable letting words spew forth from your mouth, as you really just don't care if you get blown out.
2) You'll get positive reactions. That'll reinforce your confidence and again, allow you to be more spontaneous.
So, IMO, don't take an improve class. Go out 4-5 nights a week for a couple months. Meet a ton of girls. Then at the end of 2 months, if you still feel like improv is what you need, then take the class.
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