I occasionally meet up with this Japanese-German friendship/get-together group, which is attended by a lot of Japanese female students. A couple weeks back, the group was joined by a few new female students.
I made a date with one of them at a bar/lounge. The day we're supposed to meet she texts me, asking if she could bring a friend along. I don't respond (should've just replied with 'No'). Needless to say, she brings her friend anyway, which basically tells me she's not interested. Still, just for the sake of having a good time, I decide to go through with it.
After about 30 min, I get bored and start to wonder why I'm wasting my time and money on women who are obviously not into me sexually, so I go to the bathroom, come back and say a friend just called and I've gotta run (not sure how much of that they understood, since their German still isn't that good). I immediately pay for my own drinks and leave the two of them there.
A week after that, I approached and made a date with another (newly arrived) student, who ended up flaking on me.
If I continue mining this particular social circle, how much should I worry about being branded as "that guy who hits on all the girls in the group", if that hasn't already happened? Would it be wise to begin looking elsewhere?
I made a date with one of them at a bar/lounge. The day we're supposed to meet she texts me, asking if she could bring a friend along. I don't respond (should've just replied with 'No'). Needless to say, she brings her friend anyway, which basically tells me she's not interested. Still, just for the sake of having a good time, I decide to go through with it.
After about 30 min, I get bored and start to wonder why I'm wasting my time and money on women who are obviously not into me sexually, so I go to the bathroom, come back and say a friend just called and I've gotta run (not sure how much of that they understood, since their German still isn't that good). I immediately pay for my own drinks and leave the two of them there.
A week after that, I approached and made a date with another (newly arrived) student, who ended up flaking on me.
If I continue mining this particular social circle, how much should I worry about being branded as "that guy who hits on all the girls in the group", if that hasn't already happened? Would it be wise to begin looking elsewhere?