[Walnuts]

The elder of my two younger brothers is 14 years old.

I'm wondering what would be the best way to introduce him to game.

He isn't mega beta or anything but at that young age it would be a good time to start shaping him into a strong alpha. I know I was pretty clueless at that age about girls.

I learned how to be a Man when I started college. My dad is an oldschool high testosterone alpha but is busy a lot with multiple big money companies so he hardly ever has time and couldn't help.
I had to learn for myself (along with some help from uncle roosh's blog) and I want my bro to get an early start so he doesn't have to deal with the same shit i had to in school.

I was thinking the easiest way would be to buy him roosh's Bang but I haven't read it. So I need some opinions. Roosh what did you do with your brother?

Any recommendations or info will be greatly appreciated.

[November]

I think it's kind of difficult to push game on someone. They have to want to change in order for advice to have any effect.

If your brother wants to be good with girls, he'll ask you or make an effort to learn by himself. The best thing you can do is make sure he knows you're there if he needs help along the way. Maybe ask him how he's doing with girls, if he has a girlfriend, etc. and then ask if he needs any advice.

[Walnuts]

I get what you mean but kids need to be nudged in the right direction sometimes.

[MikeCF]

If he's a natural, he won't need game.

If he's not a natural, he will need help.

Then you teach him game.

[Deluge]

I think I can chime in here. I'm 17, but I first read The Game and all that shit when I was 14-15.

It's pretty difficult to make a kid that young go out and cold approach, especially because he would be stuck with having to approach girls around his age. Instead you can prepare to be more of a man. Get him to start playing sports, get him fit. When he's 16 put him on Starting Strength or StrongLifts programmes.

The most important thing you can teach him is that the supplicating, needy and shy beta game that 90% of the world subscribes to does not work. As such you need to teach him to be confident, tell him to go to school every day and consciously decide to be more confident in everything he does. Fix up his body language, make him stand tall and proud, chin up and feet apart when he sits. Get him to speak slowly and deeply too.

Basically what I'm saying is that you should teach him that the girls around him find confidence and masculinity extremely attractive, and then make him confident and masculine. When he turns 16, make him start reading guys like Roissy and Roosh, and get him to start approaching.

[nmmoooreland20]

(03-16-2012 09:50 PM)P Dog Wrote:  

I think I can chime in here. I'm 17, but I first read The Game and all that shit when I was 14-15.

It's pretty difficult to make a kid that young go out and cold approach, especially because he would be stuck with having to approach girls around his age. Instead you can prepare to be more of a man. Get him to start playing sports, get him fit. When he's 16 put him on Starting Strength or StrongLifts programmes.

The most important thing you can teach him is that the supplicating, needy and shy beta game that 90% of the world subscribes to does not work. As such you need to teach him to be confident, tell him to go to school every day and consciously decide to be more confident in everything he does. Fix up his body language, make him stand tall and proud, chin up and feet apart when he sits. Get him to speak slowly and deeply too.

Basically what I'm saying is that you should teach him that the girls around him find confidence and masculinity extremely attractive, and then make him confident and masculine. When he turns 16, make him start reading guys like Roissy and Roosh, and get him to start approaching.

I started about reading game around 14, and looking back I would say this post distills all that I would want taught to me.

But also besides game, I’d offer advice about things that will help his logistics down the line, ie, skills to learn that will enable self sovereignty

[Basil Ransom]

Dominate a cute girl in front of him. Let him see how she enjoys it. Make her cook for you, treat her like a rowdy child, objectify her (in a non-needy way), etc.... he'll see how she revels in it.

When women and betas see a woman who happily submits to a man, doing 'demeaning' things, they refuse to understand. They just sputter in confusion, "what!? A girl's not supposed to LIKE IT when you treat her LIKE THAT?!?" "She must have *really* low self esteem."

If your brother's open-minded, that'll pique his curiousity.

[WesternCancer]

Good suggestions above. I would lead by example like basil said and push him towards the lifestyle/being his own person, get him to workout with you teach him about fashion get him reading etc.

[the chef]

http://www.rooshv.com/7-things-i-would-t...enage-self

[el mechanico]

Ok.. Listen to this cause I do this with my sis's kids and younger cousins. I take them anyplace and talk with comfort to girls like we have known eachother for years. The kids will think you know eachother and will bring it up later.....

Uncle El..How do you know her?

Me.. Who?

Them.. That girl.. You know her right?

Me.. No guys just talkin... She's cute though..Ya think? Watch this! (Kids get nervous)
Me.. Blurts out " I adopted these homeless children and juss really need some help and they seem to like you soo?"

Them..Eyes wide open just looking. Not sure if it's cool or it's a set up

Her..Aahhh I um ahh

Me..I'm not sure about you anyway so give my kids some gator-gum

Me..Move yo asses bitches.. lets go.

Me.. Get in the car now.. I bet there's better girls working the counter at Five guys. You guys order all the food for us K?

Them.. Uncle El this or that...

Me..Nope! Here's the cash don't ask me shit!!! Tell her!!

[scribblec]

(03-17-2012 12:37 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Ok.. Listen to this cause I do this with my sis's kids and younger cousins. I take them anyplace and talk with comfort to girls like we have known eachother for years. The kids will think you know eachother and will bring it up later.....

Uncle El..How do you know her?

Me.. Who?

Them.. That girl.. You know her right?

Me.. No guys just talkin... She's cute though..Ya think? Watch this! (Kids get nervous)
Me.. Blurts out " I adopted these homeless children and juss really need some help and they seem to like you soo?"

Them..Eyes wide open just looking. Not sure if it's cool or it's a set up

Her..Aahhh I um ahh

Me..I'm not sure about you anyway so give my kids some gator-gum

Me..Move yo asses bitches.. lets go.

Me.. Get in the car now.. I bet there's better girls working the counter at Five guys. You guys order all the food for us K?

Them.. Uncle El this or that...

Me..Nope! Here's the cash don't ask me shit!!! Tell her!!

wtf have u been smoking

[Walnuts]

El mech... I errr.... I don't... maybe you.... What!?

thanks for all you guys input. but what i meant was how to best INTRODUCE him to it. I think it would be best if he discovered it himself like we all did because big changes can only come from within. What i really want is to develop his Inner Game and give him an understanding of women and what it means to be a man. after he's got the solid foundations then i can step in and build, give pointers and tips etc.

that is what I'm asking for. what material would be the best to give him a firm understanding of game. i see him about once a week . i can help but if it's written down then he will absorb it a whole lot quicker and i can guide him from there and answer any questions.

[el mechanico]

You guys didn't understand that?

[Walnuts]

I understood that you probably scared the living shit out of everyone in that situation

[drymarro]

El mechanico is a boss. I wish I had an uncle like him.

[el mechanico]

(03-17-2012 08:27 PM)Walnuts Wrote:  

I understood that you probably scared the living shit out of everyone in that situation

Why? They were happy and they got the basic concept of how to deal with girls. You're the one who asked the question and I told you how to do it.
No?

[Walnuts]

i was joking bro. after reading it over a few times i kinda get it. first time i read it i thought you were yelling at the kids and everyone.

[Christian McQueen]

It's never too early to start teaching game to a sibling. My older brother put a Playboy mag in my hands when I was 6yo. He's almost 6 years older than me, so he would let me hang out with him when I was around 12 with him and his girls. Learned alot early on.