[tomtud]

Here is the link to full episodes http://www.mtv.com/shows/friendzone/video.jhtml

I saw this show last week for the first time and reminds me a bit of myself from years past. In the first episode, the guy who confesses his attraction for the woman states in the lines of he hates seeing her date assholes, and asks what they have that he doesn't????? I am sure many of us have had that thought come through our heads. Goes to show you, he who hesitates, masturbates. http://www.rooshv.com/he-who-hesitates-masturbates

When is being in the friend zone dangerous and when is it beneficial?

My answer, well having comparable options in women will help you avoid a huge letdown if you confess your love and it is not reciprocated. It will benefit you if she gives you that"pre-selection" vibe that women notice. Use it and if she can help you as a wing woman or expand your social circle then it is all good. Any thoughts?

[soup]

Never "confess your love" to a woman.

I don't believe in having a wing-woman. There's something off about it, and most women, let alone most guys who aren't in the game, don't properly know how to wing. That said, you can use women as pivots without having to explicitly collaborate with them.

It's like when a girl tries to set you up with her friend. There's always something irksome about it. I don't like the girl being in control, and I don't need anyone to set me up. You have to always have hand with all the women in your life.

Don't ever get into a friend zone with a woman you want to bang. I'd rather not be around her if I've struck-out. Hit the next button- there are new women everywhere. If you're in a small town, figure out a way to get the hell out of dodge.

[Tuthmosis]

This sounds painful to watch. Can you direct us to an especially good episode?

[Aliblahba]

LMAO!!! I was at a girls apartment the other night and watched. She got mad at me cause I pegged ever scenerio, before the moment of truth. Fuck I hate watching t.v. with chicks.

[Tuthmosis]

(03-10-2012 12:25 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

LMAO!!! I was at a girls apartment the other night and watched. She got mad at me cause I pegged ever scenerio, before the moment of truth. Fuck I hate watching t.v. with chicks.

Could you imagine having a viewing of this show with 20 guys from the forum? We'd have to pause every 5 seconds to break the guy down. Too much game in the room.

[RaulValdez739]

I had a girl(6.5-7) come out to me that she liked me and wanted out of a friendzone. I brutally shot her down. Watching these episodes are hard for me :/

[Aliblahba]

As you get a little older, and grow as a player, girls won't put you in the friend zone. They know immediately your intentions. "Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer", doesn't apply to females. She will feel "threatened" by you.

This cuts out a lot of the bullshit. Either she wants to fuck you or not. Either way, there's no middle ground. And I don't have time for female friends.

[el mechanico]

(03-10-2012 01:41 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

As you get a little older, and grow as a player, girls won't put you in the friend zone. They know immediately your intentions. "Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer", doesn't apply to females. She will feel "threatened" by you.

This cuts out a lot of the bullshit. Either she wants to fuck you or not. Either way, there's no middle ground. And I don't have time for female friends.

True true.

[tomtud]

(03-10-2012 12:22 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

This sounds painful to watch. Can you direct us to an especially good episode?

The first episode I watched only. Follow the link and decipher

[dulst]

Being in the friendzone is only beneficial if you can create a bit of distance. You have the advantage of her already trusting you, but building attraction is a LOT harder. However once that attraction is built you're unstoppable.

[jerome]

Being in the friend zone can suck, and can be good, since your already in comfort zone.

if your an attractive guy, she cannot resist it. The best way to get out of the friendzone is escalation.

Talking is cheap, since you already know each other. I cringe watching these video. Had they simply isolate there partner in an area where no ones around things will go smoother. Having a camera in your face sucks to.

If your in the friendzone try to isolate her at your place or hers, make sure some alcohol is involve so you can use it as an excuse, and simply make a move, by trying to kiss her or escalate on her. She will ask what are you doing. Simply just say don't worry about it. Were just having some fun.

She either go along with it, since it feels good. Or object.

It may become awkward the next day, you can just blame on alcohol and being horny and that you are a man. She will assume alcohol and being man. And the friendship should be okay...since it was alcohol and nothen serious.

[Kitsune]

The first thing I told myself getting into the game was that I was never going to be put in the friend zone again.

Here is the kicker; it improved my game massively. We all know women peg you as 'a friend' and then it is all over. My first goal was to NOT get close enough to women so they could peg me as a friend. I managed to cultivate the 'aloof and indifferent' attitude long before I had the rest of my game down, just by saying to myself 'Don't let these girls think they can talk about girl problems with you.'

Eventually, it drives them wild. They don't know enough about you to peg whether you're a loser or a winner, and let me tell you, sometimes I was a real loser. I'd say stupid shit that'd put people off if they knew me, but after ignoring them for a week, they were back trying to figure me out.

Now I can talk to girls (and guys) from years back and they go straight into detective mode, still trying to figure me out. Of course now I've got my shit together a lot more, so I can reveal a lot more. Either way, the moment a girl thinks she can whine to me about her boyfriend or not wear make up to meet me is the moment I disappear again until next time.

Thing is, it is the simplest move/mindset in the world to master. You don't need to be alpha, dominant or good with women to pull it off.

[porscheguy]

In each one where a guy appealed to a girl, he essentially got shot down. When the girls appealed to the guy, he accepted. Watching it can feel awkward. The more the guy acts like a bitch, the more likely he is to get shot down hard.

[Tuthmosis]

(03-10-2012 06:27 PM)porscheguy Wrote:  

In each one where a guy appealed to a girl, he essentially got shot down. When the girls appealed to the guy, he accepted.

Without watching it, this is pretty much what I predicted. Not surprised.

[JoyStick]

i watched a couple episodes... it's so hard to watch. so much beta-ness. it makes me grateful i found this forum.

[scorpio]

I just watched a couple of episodes after seeing this post.

- Those girls are average to slightly above average at best. That average guys are willing to pedestalize average looking women...

- At least one incident, the guy was better looking than the girl. She shot him down anyway.

- These guys make it insanely easy for me to just breathe, smile and talk to girls.

- Makes me realize I'm a mutant for the girls I've rejected, ignored, or dumped through the years.

[Clearwaterkid]

oh god, it's so hard to watch. I feel bad for these guys. At least the ones that are getting rejected are learning a lot about how life is going to work for them. I also noticed in the few episodes that I watched, when the girl asked the guy he always said yes.

[jariel]

(03-10-2012 11:16 AM)soup Wrote:  

I don't believe in having a wing-woman. There's something off about it, and most women, let alone most guys who aren't in the game, don't properly know how to wing. That said, you can use women as pivots without having to explicitly collaborate with them.

I'll give you half-credit on this one.

With the way night game has changed, having a wing-woman makes things a lot easier, but she has to know how to wing. A good wing-woman makes friends with other girls, then at the right time, brings you into the mix as the cool friend she came with, and you put your own bid in from there.

I've been a beneficiary of good wing-woman game, and I've also witnessed bad wing-woman game, which usually entails a woman putting a dude out there for another woman while also subliminally communicating she is also fucking the dude.

[tomtud]

I have been watching a few episodes as of the last few days. I only saw once that the guy shot a girl down, but he had a girlfriend already. So had that not been he case he possibly would've took he bait. I forgot her name, but she said she is the one who friendzones men, not the other way around. What a sense of entitlement, her shit don't stink either? It's episode 8

[RaulValdez739]

(03-14-2012 09:56 PM)tomtud Wrote:  

I have been watching a few episodes as of the last few days. I only saw once that the guy shot a girl down, but he had a girlfriend already. So had that not been he case he possibly would've took he bait. I forgot her name, but she said she is the one who friendzones men, not the other way around. What a sense of entitlement, her shit don't stink either? It's episode 8

Lol I saw that episode. One of comments said "I bet he just agreed to the date to have some of her lasagna" .

[ibaguesucks305]

The show is fake, just like all the other reality shows on MTV