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(02-25-2012 05:28 PM)Mr.GM Wrote:  

I'm learning to be a Jedi, Yoda Mixx. I had Roosh on FB , but I guess that he uses his profile only as a fan page to promote his books.

At first life may seem impossible without facebook : "how I'm gonna keep in contact with old friends and work contacts ?"
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You don't necessarily have to get rid of your facebook, you can always just change your name in the system to something else. I'm pretty sure they also have a feature so you can block people from finding you in searches entirely. You also want to make sure to lock down all your privacy settings so randoms can't see anything about you.

It also can help if your profile picture that isn't of you. Use a pic of a place you've been or a pet or something.

Then you can keep in touch with the friends and family without being as publicly accesible.

Teachers do this type of thing a lot b/c they don't want their students or the parents they deal with knowing their personal lives.

[pitt]

(02-25-2012 06:05 PM)esperar Wrote:  

(02-25-2012 03:59 PM)pitt Wrote:  

(02-25-2012 03:47 PM)esperar Wrote:  

I use it to find chicks.. This is wrong?

Change that this is wrong to: Is this beta?

You sound like you are being sarchastic asking this (i know that you are probably being serious).

You're right, I was being serious. I've been going out more to find chicks at bars and clubs, but even then I still struggle. I'm trying to improve, but I'm the exact opposite of a natural.

Actually i thought you were joking.

Anyway, i dont see anything wrong with you using facebook to find chicks, if you are getting good results then keep on doing it. I personally dont use facebook because i dont find it a good site to meet chicks. I hardly ever used social network sites to meet chicks, the only one i ever used was tagged when i went to DR and i got some very good results on it.

Its all about getting good results, if you are getting good results then keep on doing it, its just my personal choice not to use facebook, it doesnt matter how you pull these girls, a chick from the internet still have a pussy.

[hypesession]

(02-26-2012 03:12 AM)pitt Wrote:  

(02-25-2012 06:05 PM)esperar Wrote:  

(02-25-2012 03:59 PM)pitt Wrote:  

(02-25-2012 03:47 PM)esperar Wrote:  

I use it to find chicks.. This is wrong?

Change that this is wrong to: Is this beta?

You sound like you are being sarchastic asking this (i know that you are probably being serious).

You're right, I was being serious. I've been going out more to find chicks at bars and clubs, but even then I still struggle. I'm trying to improve, but I'm the exact opposite of a natural.

Actually i thought you were joking.

Anyway, i dont see anything wrong with you using facebook to find chicks, if you are getting good results then keep on doing it. I personally dont use facebook because i dont find it a good site to meet chicks. I hardly ever used social network sites to meet chicks, the only one i ever used was tagged when i went to DR and i got some very good results on it.

Its all about getting good results, if you are getting good results then keep on doing it, its just my personal choice not to use facebook, it doesnt matter how you pull these girls, a chick from the internet still have a pussy.

Using facebook is different from tagged or okcupid cos it's trolling people you already know. I've successfully restarted some chicks that i knew from BACK in the day from hitting them up real quick on facebook chat. One girl I was like you know i've always wanted to tell you this but I had a gf, but I always had the only crush on you.
she told me she was single and things went from there.
another girl i knew in high school i got to take a flight out to see me from some serious facebook chat game that i did late at night when i was bored.
I highly recommend it just cos it's so easy and effective.

[esperar]

(02-26-2012 03:12 AM)pitt Wrote:  

(02-25-2012 06:05 PM)esperar Wrote:  

(02-25-2012 03:59 PM)pitt Wrote:  

(02-25-2012 03:47 PM)esperar Wrote:  

I use it to find chicks.. This is wrong?

Change that this is wrong to: Is this beta?

You sound like you are being sarchastic asking this (i know that you are probably being serious).

You're right, I was being serious. I've been going out more to find chicks at bars and clubs, but even then I still struggle. I'm trying to improve, but I'm the exact opposite of a natural.

Actually i thought you were joking.

Anyway, i dont see anything wrong with you using facebook to find chicks, if you are getting good results then keep on doing it. I personally dont use facebook because i dont find it a good site to meet chicks. I hardly ever used social network sites to meet chicks, the only one i ever used was tagged when i went to DR and i got some very good results on it.

Its all about getting good results, if you are getting good results then keep on doing it, its just my personal choice not to use facebook, it doesnt matter how you pull these girls, a chick from the internet still have a pussy.

It works with limited success, which is why I'm trying other tactics out. I'd like it a lot if I had a wing man, because when I go out by myself, I can just go really quiet and do nothing. I've had attractive girls give me IOIs like today, and I do nothing. Very frustrating.

Being social is not something that comes naturally to me with the anxiety illness I have, but I am trying to improve my game.

[Mr.GM]

(02-26-2012 10:56 AM)esperar Wrote:  

It works with limited success, which is why I'm trying other tactics out. I'd like it a lot if I had a wing man, because when I go out by myself, I can just go really quiet and do nothing. I've had attractive girls give me IOIs like today, and I do nothing. Very frustrating.

Being social is not something that comes naturally to me with the anxiety illness I have, but I am trying to improve my game.

You must put yourself in this "uncomfortable" position or else you will never get over of your AA.
I just like you wasn't born a natural , hell I feel AA sometimes even today. But you gotta push yourself even when your whole body is shaking. Learning game also helps because it makes more familiar with the routines and after some time it feels natural when you are talking to a chick. Don't rely on online game only .

I think Facebook is good if used in a certain way , especially for new players or guys who are relying on social circle game to swoop.

But when you start to pull random chicks in a regular basis , it can be a pain in the ass when you have several chicks posting on your profile or digging through your contacts. Now that my game has tighten considerably (and as a result pulling more chicks) , I see the bad side of Facebook and Online dating , thats why I chose to lay low for a while.

[esperar]

Did you know there was a time when I would freak out when a hot chick asked me out on a date? I used to go silent, look away, and try to get away as quickly as possible. No, I'm not joking, I was a SEVERE case. A solid 7 was clearly checking me out at the supermarket today, and all I could manage was "how are you?"

I've been told by so many chicks that getting girls should not be a problem for me because of how I look, but it is. However, I am still forcing myself in to more uncomfortable situations all of the time. It really is baby steps for me though.

[Mr.GM]

(02-26-2012 01:07 PM)esperar Wrote:  

Did you know there was a time when I would freak out when a hot chick asked me out on a date? I used to go silent, look away, and try to get away as quickly as possible. No, I'm not joking, I was a SEVERE case. A solid 7 was clearly checking me out at the supermarket today, and all I could manage was "how are you?"

I've been told by so many chicks that getting girls should not be a problem for me because of how I look, but it is. However, I am still forcing myself in to more uncomfortable situations all of the time. It really is baby steps for me though.

If Hot chicks are approaching you you are already a blessed man. Most guys will never get approached.
It is baby steps but you gotta do it , day game and night game , it will get easier and easier. It doesn't matter much WHAT you say at first as long as you approach and keep it flirty. I don't know how many girls have you banged in your lifetime but when the numbers start climbing it gets easier and easier , you realize that most girls are similar and the situations repeat over and over again.

[esperar]

I think I need a wing man. I do go out alone, but I need a guy to not let me go quiet, and to encourage me to approach more chicks.

[FretDancer]

I'm currently dealing with something like this. Best thing you can do is put all the cards on the table, and cut shit and say it straight. Hopefully she is mature enough to handle it, and if not, well too bad for her.

(02-28-2012 07:45 AM)esperar Wrote:  

I think I need a wing man. I do go out alone, but I need a guy to not let me go quiet, and to encourage me to approach more chicks.

If nightgame is too intimidating for you try rolling solo daygaming. Its more relaxing.

[Mr.GM]

Just found this old post from Roosh's blog , is pretty much the same I endured with this girl : The Most Epic Email I Have Ever Received In My Life