[oldnemesis]

(02-17-2012 03:54 AM)Greek kamaki Wrote:  

1.Why are you in Ukraine?
This test implies:Are you in Ukraine to hunt girls?If you answer I came to get girls you are immediately disqualified.

Not really. First you're likely telling the truth so she won't think you're a liar. She'll likely ask an explanation (what does it mean? You came for a wife/gf? hookers?). I can imagine the situation where it may be a good answer. But if you're old and out of shape, this is probably not a good answer anyway.

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If you answer I am a professional searching for business opportunities,interested in buying real estate,trying to open a shop or franchise etc you are in to be considered a liar.

Not really, but you'll definitely be further tested to make sure you're congruent. A chick thinks you may be lying, but she'll give you some benefit of the doubt. Of course if you're saying you're professional searching for business, but you are staying in a hostel, leaving in a week and cannot explain what kind of business you're looking for, you better say you're coming for girls.

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2.How long will you stay in Ukraine?
If you answer I came for a week she may decide you are not material for LTR.

Which also may be good. If this question popped up after we've been talking for a while and she already perceives me as a high value person, I'd rather say I'm leaving tomorrow, forcing her to choose between spending a night with me with the possibility to see me in a future, or call it quit right away which saves time.

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3.Are girls not beautiful in your country?Why do you want ukrainian girl?

What do you say to get this question? I have never got one in my whole life.

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4.Why do you not have a girlfriend?Why are you not married? This means what is your story?Are you not eligible to get a wife in your country or are you irresponsible?

This usually means "are you married, and aren't you lying that you are not?" and she's watching your behavior while you answer.

Now let me do some critique

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1.Why are you in Ukraine?
I love Ukraine.It is a spceial country.I have been in Poland,Czech Republic,Hungary,Slovakia,Denmark,Sweden,Germany,Italy,Austria and Ukraine is my favourite destination.

This is a good answer. The bold part is critical for its success; Ukraine is just one of the countries you've visited. Just a simple "I like to travel" works well as long as you've been to other countries you mention (she may test you). Keep it short and let her dig the information about other countries from you.

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2.How long will you stay in Ukraine?
Unfortunately I get a very short vaccation because my job is very demanding.This time I will stay for a week but I will come back soon.Last year I was in Ukraine 5 times in March,May,August etc.

Not sure what you're trying to achieve. From this answer it is obvious that no LTR is possible, and you're not even looking for one. So why mention that you've been here before and you leave soon? I'd say something like "My flight back is in a week, but I'll probably leave tomorrow because I absolutely hate this place". Smile when you say it. When she asks why make up something about not being able to find a place where they make a good coffee or something like that.

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3.Are girls not beautiful in your country?
Girls are exceptionally beautiful in my country.

I'd stop right here. You answered her question, and you're here because you love the country and the culture, not because you're not getting something where you're from. Also nobody likes to hear complains, nor she really care.

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3.Why do you want ukrainian girl?
Ukrainian girls are so nice and beautiful.I can never stiop coming here.

Would you really care whether she's Ukrainian or not as long as she's nice and beautiful? You likely won't, and she knows that. I usually say I'm an easy-going person, I like meeting new people and I do not care whether she's Ukrainian or not as long as she's good person.

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4.Why are you not married?
Unfortunately I was not able to find the right person.

I'd stop right here as well. No need to elaborate, and if you complain about something she doesn't know, she'll have to give them the benefit of the doubt (because your representation of the situation is obviously one-sided), and will dig it further, maybe starting even arguing with you (it is obvious that not the WHOLE USA is fat)

[K-man]

Re: resorts and how to pick one - a good way is to look up a hotel you are considering on Trip Advisor and check out the reviews - if you see mostly UK guys writing, it's a stag destination. If you see Germans/Swedes - that's who you will encounter there. If you see reviews in a language you don't understand, that's probably Russian or Romanian or Czech, and you should seriously consider this hotel.
This method used to be more reliable in the past, but it seems the western travelers are more active in writing reviews so that might not be representative.

A better way is to look at the biggest Russian tour operator that sells holidays in Turkey, Egypt, etc. - this is http://www.teztour.com/
This will give you an idea of what hotels they sell on the Russian market. I just looked up the Bulgarian resort Sunny Beach that I frequent every summer, and they have 30 hotels listed there. There are a total of 300+ hotels in this resort, and now I know which 10% of them will have the highest abundance of Russian pussy. Works the same way for Turkey, Egypt, etc.

[Greek kamaki]

I was last summer in Sunny Beach and it is definitely not a good place to pick up Russian women.Yes,there are some of them but being in Sunny Beach quickly disqualifies you as it is a cheap resort so the girls view you as one of the usual cheap drunk tourists who come for the stag parties.It is difficult to distinguish yourself in such an environment the vibe is not a decent one.Also in places where English rule as I have previously written(and they rule definitely in the centre of Sunny Beach) things become difficult for other nationalities.(imagine the poor Italian guy for example dressed in expensive suit while all English guys around him yell dressed in shorts leaving their legs in open view,multicolor shirts and flip flops).

Another thing you need to pay attention to is that many Russian women vaccate with their parents in fact when you see a beautiful girl strolling with her mama she is usually Russian.They do the same everywhere.Moms are there to discourage wannabe pick upers off and to give advice to their daughters.However if a slavic mother approves you it may work to your favor they actually push their daughters to you.So it is a double sword.You have to make good impression both to the mother and daughter and if there is difference I usually focus on mother.

[Pilgrim37]

(02-22-2012 03:42 AM)Greek kamaki Wrote:  

I was last summer in Sunny Beach and it is definitely not a good place to pick up Russian women.Yes,there are some of them but being in Sunny Beach quickly disqualifies you as it is a cheap resort so the girls view you as one of the usual cheap drunk tourists who come for the stag parties.It is difficult to distinguish yourself in such an environment the vibe is not a decent one.Also in places where English rule as I have previously written(and they rule definitely in the centre of Sunny Beach) things become difficult for other nationalities.(imagine the poor Italian guy for example dressed in expensive suit while all English guys around him yell dressed in shorts leaving their legs in open view,multicolor shirts and flip flops).

Another thing you need to pay attention to is that many Russian women vaccate with their parents in fact when you see a beautiful girl strolling with her mama she is usually Russian.They do the same everywhere.Moms are there to discourage wannabe pick upers off and to give advice to their daughters.However if a slavic mother approves you it may work to your favor they actually push their daughters to you.So it is a double sword.You have to make good impression both to the mother and daughter and if there is difference I usually focus on mother.

I see you are a connaseur of the English "style"

[Deb Auchery]

(02-22-2012 06:33 PM)Pilgrim37 Wrote:  

(02-22-2012 03:42 AM)Greek kamaki Wrote:  

I was last summer in Sunny Beach and it is definitely not a good place to pick up Russian women.Yes,there are some of them but being in Sunny Beach quickly disqualifies you as it is a cheap resort so the girls view you as one of the usual cheap drunk tourists who come for the stag parties.It is difficult to distinguish yourself in such an environment the vibe is not a decent one.Also in places where English rule as I have previously written(and they rule definitely in the centre of Sunny Beach) things become difficult for other nationalities.(imagine the poor Italian guy for example dressed in expensive suit while all English guys around him yell dressed in shorts leaving their legs in open view,multicolor shirts and flip flops).

Another thing you need to pay attention to is that many Russian women vaccate with their parents in fact when you see a beautiful girl strolling with her mama she is usually Russian.They do the same everywhere.Moms are there to discourage wannabe pick upers off and to give advice to their daughters.However if a slavic mother approves you it may work to your favor they actually push their daughters to you.So it is a double sword.You have to make good impression both to the mother and daughter and if there is difference I usually focus on mother.

I see you are a connaseur of the English "style"


Can't imagine Italian guys walking around a beach resort, 40 degrees in a suit

[Greek kamaki]

I wrote it to show the contrast.In a club environment where everyone shows their white or hairy legs it is ridiculous to dress up Italian style and make an impression.