Hey guys, I found myself in a conundrum.
There's this girl I've been seeing the last couple weeks. She's alright, I knew she was kind of crazy before I started seeing her, but I didn't really care because I knew she put out. Fact is, I didn't know how bad she was until after I slept with her.
After I heard she was a rabbit-boiler, I backed off a bit, but one night we were drinking and before I knew it, I was fucking her on my friend's mattress. This girl is a nympho and she does her best to please me, but the biggest problem is that (ever since the condom broke once), I can't cum at all. Earlier this morning I went for an hour and a half with nothing to show for it but a smelly room. I had to finish myself off in the shower. While this makes for a funny story, I'm very frustrated about the whole thing.
My friends also don't like her one bit, but she's obsessed as hell about me. It's not a facebook official type relationship, but she still considers me her boyfriend. I'm not getting out of this relationship what I want and she seems to have some emotional problems that I don't really care to deal with. In any other situation, I'd tell her to straight-up leave, but I'm on a very small campus and she would probably be crazy enough to stalk me or something. I'd really rather that she didn't do something self destructive because I left her.
The biggest reason why I got into this "relationship" was because I'm currently too busy with school to really chase women with results, and the logistics of chasing women here are terrible. I also don't have a really big "social circle" which is necessary for college game and I consider college girls to be pretty worthless as far as acting like real women is concerned. I'm definitely going to pursue women more seriously after I get out of college, so this relationship is more of a lazy way of getting what I want without much effort.
So my question is, how do I get her to lose all attraction for me and how do I do it to make it look like it's my fault? I figure the best way to do it would be to relate the problem to my inability to get off or make it look like she'd be better off without me, but at this stage I don't think she'd go for that. I'm willing to wait until the end of the semester, since I probably won't be at the college during the summer or during the first semester (that's about an 8 month period of time, which should be more than enough time for her to get over it). I'm doing my best to hammer out her bad behavior and she seems to listen to me for the most part.
The scariest thing is that she tells me that I'm the best she's ever had and she has implied marriage more than once. I have a couple months to think about it, but I really don't know what the hell I'm going to do. Marriage is the last thing on my mind and it's probably something I'll only do when I'm older and scared of dying alone, but not now.
There's this girl I've been seeing the last couple weeks. She's alright, I knew she was kind of crazy before I started seeing her, but I didn't really care because I knew she put out. Fact is, I didn't know how bad she was until after I slept with her.
After I heard she was a rabbit-boiler, I backed off a bit, but one night we were drinking and before I knew it, I was fucking her on my friend's mattress. This girl is a nympho and she does her best to please me, but the biggest problem is that (ever since the condom broke once), I can't cum at all. Earlier this morning I went for an hour and a half with nothing to show for it but a smelly room. I had to finish myself off in the shower. While this makes for a funny story, I'm very frustrated about the whole thing.
My friends also don't like her one bit, but she's obsessed as hell about me. It's not a facebook official type relationship, but she still considers me her boyfriend. I'm not getting out of this relationship what I want and she seems to have some emotional problems that I don't really care to deal with. In any other situation, I'd tell her to straight-up leave, but I'm on a very small campus and she would probably be crazy enough to stalk me or something. I'd really rather that she didn't do something self destructive because I left her.
The biggest reason why I got into this "relationship" was because I'm currently too busy with school to really chase women with results, and the logistics of chasing women here are terrible. I also don't have a really big "social circle" which is necessary for college game and I consider college girls to be pretty worthless as far as acting like real women is concerned. I'm definitely going to pursue women more seriously after I get out of college, so this relationship is more of a lazy way of getting what I want without much effort.
So my question is, how do I get her to lose all attraction for me and how do I do it to make it look like it's my fault? I figure the best way to do it would be to relate the problem to my inability to get off or make it look like she'd be better off without me, but at this stage I don't think she'd go for that. I'm willing to wait until the end of the semester, since I probably won't be at the college during the summer or during the first semester (that's about an 8 month period of time, which should be more than enough time for her to get over it). I'm doing my best to hammer out her bad behavior and she seems to listen to me for the most part.
The scariest thing is that she tells me that I'm the best she's ever had and she has implied marriage more than once. I have a couple months to think about it, but I really don't know what the hell I'm going to do. Marriage is the last thing on my mind and it's probably something I'll only do when I'm older and scared of dying alone, but not now.
