[_Samo_]

So basically I've been ''gaming'' online recently but every time after I speak with a girl on Skype or msn or something they ALWAYS ask to add me on Facebook and I've already replied with 'I don't have Facebook' that just doesn't work, they then think I'm an ant-social freak(I'm not) or something and go cold on me. But I really don't want to add them so what is a way to get around this without adding them?

[el mechanico]

(02-08-2012 04:46 PM)_Samo_ Wrote:  

So basically I've been ''gaming'' online recently but every time after I speak with a girl on Skype or msn or something they ALWAYS ask to add me on Facebook and I've already replied with 'I don't have Facebook' that just doesn't work, they then think I'm an ant-social freak(I'm not) or something. But I really don't want to add them so what is a way to get around this without adding them?

"I clicked on something and it got a virus" I can't even type on it now.
Nobody has much to say there anyway so I didn't bother fixing it.

[Gmac]

Simple. Maximize your security settings so you are unsearchable. Period.

Don't allow people to tag you in photos or appear in people's friends list. None of that.

Your profile should be invisible, a ghost. Mine is, and I like it that way.

"I don't use facebook anymore" is a valid response.

It doesn't work? Don't take that shit from chicks, they are the ones with the problem.

[Tuthmosis]

You're doing something wrong. Girls never bring up Facebook online with me, and I'm gaming at the bottom of the age range. I don't know why you're having this intermediate Skype/MSN step. It's not surprising that after TWO versions of Internet communication, they try to confine you in the e-friend world. Move the fuck off the computer, man.

Meet in person after a good exchange online. Don't linger in cyberspace or you'll just stay there!

[Parlay44]

Just say "not yet". I wanna get to know you a little first.

[_Samo_]

Thanks for the advice guys,
@Tuthmosis - I probably should of mentioned I'm 'pipelining' the girls I'm talking with on msn/Skype are in different countries so I cant meet them until I land overseas.

[Nonpareil]

The best way to do this is by not having Facebook...but that's like saying the best way to prevent unplanned pregnancy is abstinence (LOL!) or the best way not to become an alcoholic is to abstain from alcohol (LOLOLOLOL!).

Just beef up your security settings. When I had Facebook (before it had many of the bells and whistles it had today), I'd tell girls my name and that they can add me, and let their friend invitation sit in my notifications for like a month before adding them, saying that I don't use Facebook often.

[chyamor]

I know this goes against all advice but when Im online dating I almost want them to add me to facebook. I do it for a few reasons 1) I can see more pics of them to see if its really them 2) I can see her friends and start attending get together where I know her hot friends will be there 3) helps me keep track of bday, location, etc

Now I have my security so locked down that they cant see anything, not my friends, not my postings, wall is nice and clean. Is if she's my first and only fb friend.

Now as I said this only applies to girls Im talking to on okc.