So I've been lurking here for a while and thought I would make my own contribution as relates to volunteer game. But instead of the boring old going to events and doing good works this is more about mid/long term game as a quasi organizer. (note I started this a long time ago so it is 6 months out of date)
This sort of game is: little effort` let's you quickly and efficiently meet people and number close makes you seem alpha
A little background - I accidentally stumbled on this as my friend was volunteering for the American Cancer Society and demanded I form a team to bump up her numbers for a Breast Cancer Cure Walk. So I grumbled a bit but made a team and was thrilled when I realized there was actually no work involved besides recruiting (this was fun not work though) and showing up the day of the walk.
I broke down my Cure for Cancer walk game into three stages: Recruitment Participation After Walk Social
The first stage had me just mention to anyone and everyone I found the slight bit interesting that there was a cancer walk coming up and I had sponsored a team. This is a good non-threatening approach you can use to engage cold, though I generally found myself slipping it into conversation shortly after meeting someone. Girls got super excited when I told them about the walk and many times they would force me to take their numbers so I could text them the details. This is a great time to build rapport with them over an innocent subject and I never tried to close the deal at this stage. Something key I will mention here is the sign ups are on an online page so I made sure I was the first person to make a donation from my team and it was for a decent amount –I’m not sure if it would hurt you if a fly girl hopped on to sign up and saw you made a 1 dollar donation but maybe so I opted to avoid that problem. Total time invested in talking to a slightly inebriation girl and getting her number (or in rare cases giving her mine) was a couple of minutes. These interactions were not just Cancer Curing business I made sure to slip in a few jokes with subtle space invasion and physical contact as well. It is fair to say I talked to at least 150 randoms doing this in the month and a half prior to the event. At some later date I would text them the details and while there was a substantial amount who flaked on the actual sign up there were very few who flaked on responding to me at all. This was a great stage to start text gaming girls as well and it is not an exaggeration to say I literally could have made enough “meetup” plans to entertain half the forum for a good month just by being intriguing and seemingly nice enough to organize and sponsor a team for such a good purpose. I did meet up with a half dozen girls through this method prior to the event and not one flaked. To boil it down –this stage was all about having an innocuous method to quickly and easily work lots of girls into my text game rotation without any investment on my end. I also realized I had a great chance to cement myself as a dominant social status object after the walk. I went to myspot™ and set up a closed bar event around lunchtime or so for my cancer walk team (and anyone else we invited of course). When I told people there was an afterwalk party it really made the girls tingle –it let them feel like they were doing a good thing during the day but let them get their slutty drink on right after. This after event would also allow me to demonstrate my value to everyone since I would be the linchpin of the event and just bouncing effortlessly from one group to another.
The second stage was the actual walk itself. I think we met at 7:45 for the start of it at 8 –probably had about 50 people (about 30% male and this was about a half dozen different social groups). I invested in bringing some donut holes and one of those coffee jugs from Dunkin to help those who had a hard night. This was a very good investment and got me a good number of free drinks later on. Nothing much to report from the walk itself as people were still waking up and hung over but it was just mingling time. I made some offhand comments about how our after spot was opening up an hour or so early just for our group to subtly raise my status.
The third stage was the after walk day drinking session. I lucked out in the fact that our after spot was a 10 minute trip away (I live in a large city so no driving) but it would have been difficult to move such a group if everyone had driven so keep this in mind when picking where to go. The owner greeted me like an old friend which didn’t hurt. From then on it was game as usual though I was running a modified version I think of as Spider Web game. Essentially I was just a big spider in middle of my web and everyone would gravitate towards me sooner or later. I was mostly asshole/funny because I had already shown my nice guy side by organizing the whole thing.
This is a great way to quickly build your status and social network with very little time and energy invested. A bit long I know but if anyone has any questions let me know
This sort of game is: little effort` let's you quickly and efficiently meet people and number close makes you seem alpha
A little background - I accidentally stumbled on this as my friend was volunteering for the American Cancer Society and demanded I form a team to bump up her numbers for a Breast Cancer Cure Walk. So I grumbled a bit but made a team and was thrilled when I realized there was actually no work involved besides recruiting (this was fun not work though) and showing up the day of the walk.
I broke down my Cure for Cancer walk game into three stages: Recruitment Participation After Walk Social
The first stage had me just mention to anyone and everyone I found the slight bit interesting that there was a cancer walk coming up and I had sponsored a team. This is a good non-threatening approach you can use to engage cold, though I generally found myself slipping it into conversation shortly after meeting someone. Girls got super excited when I told them about the walk and many times they would force me to take their numbers so I could text them the details. This is a great time to build rapport with them over an innocent subject and I never tried to close the deal at this stage. Something key I will mention here is the sign ups are on an online page so I made sure I was the first person to make a donation from my team and it was for a decent amount –I’m not sure if it would hurt you if a fly girl hopped on to sign up and saw you made a 1 dollar donation but maybe so I opted to avoid that problem. Total time invested in talking to a slightly inebriation girl and getting her number (or in rare cases giving her mine) was a couple of minutes. These interactions were not just Cancer Curing business I made sure to slip in a few jokes with subtle space invasion and physical contact as well. It is fair to say I talked to at least 150 randoms doing this in the month and a half prior to the event. At some later date I would text them the details and while there was a substantial amount who flaked on the actual sign up there were very few who flaked on responding to me at all. This was a great stage to start text gaming girls as well and it is not an exaggeration to say I literally could have made enough “meetup” plans to entertain half the forum for a good month just by being intriguing and seemingly nice enough to organize and sponsor a team for such a good purpose. I did meet up with a half dozen girls through this method prior to the event and not one flaked. To boil it down –this stage was all about having an innocuous method to quickly and easily work lots of girls into my text game rotation without any investment on my end. I also realized I had a great chance to cement myself as a dominant social status object after the walk. I went to myspot™ and set up a closed bar event around lunchtime or so for my cancer walk team (and anyone else we invited of course). When I told people there was an afterwalk party it really made the girls tingle –it let them feel like they were doing a good thing during the day but let them get their slutty drink on right after. This after event would also allow me to demonstrate my value to everyone since I would be the linchpin of the event and just bouncing effortlessly from one group to another.
The second stage was the actual walk itself. I think we met at 7:45 for the start of it at 8 –probably had about 50 people (about 30% male and this was about a half dozen different social groups). I invested in bringing some donut holes and one of those coffee jugs from Dunkin to help those who had a hard night. This was a very good investment and got me a good number of free drinks later on. Nothing much to report from the walk itself as people were still waking up and hung over but it was just mingling time. I made some offhand comments about how our after spot was opening up an hour or so early just for our group to subtly raise my status.
The third stage was the after walk day drinking session. I lucked out in the fact that our after spot was a 10 minute trip away (I live in a large city so no driving) but it would have been difficult to move such a group if everyone had driven so keep this in mind when picking where to go. The owner greeted me like an old friend which didn’t hurt. From then on it was game as usual though I was running a modified version I think of as Spider Web game. Essentially I was just a big spider in middle of my web and everyone would gravitate towards me sooner or later. I was mostly asshole/funny because I had already shown my nice guy side by organizing the whole thing.
This is a great way to quickly build your status and social network with very little time and energy invested. A bit long I know but if anyone has any questions let me know
