[Dalaran1991]

(04-09-2015 09:49 PM)Vaun Wrote:  

Nah. Women that are disinterested in you are unavailable. Women that are interested in you will make themselves available.

Its called interest level. How much interest does she have in you? 100%, 50% or 25%?

I dont care how hot she is. And good girls make themselves available too. Maybe not TOO available, but they make it easier for you. That doesnt just mean sex. It means how available are they, for you?

Girls that like you make it easier for you.

You can blame texting and social media. But I date plenty of young women who when they are interested, definitely show it.

Girls that flake dont want you.

Agree completely. I posed the question the other day, why is it either very easy or impossible to get girls to go out, with no middle ground?

I've found out that if the girls like you, she will come out, will be on time, will be quite pleasant etc. no matter how hot she is. I went out with some very attractive girls who were clearly into me from the start and it was smooth sailing. One of them even sent a stream of text apologizing for being late 5 min...

It depends entirely on how attracted she is. Because the next time that very same girl was impossible to get out!

On the contrary if she is "maybe" or simply not interested, you should certainly expect a flake. I've been flaked on by girls I consider way below me. While it sucks, it is also a sign of you not creating enough attraction and momentum. Take note for development.

Momentum is also key. Attraction is short lived so strike hard and fast. I remembered getting a beautiful girl's number one Wed morning, then she said if I ever went out on Wed she would be down. I had an inner battle for 30 min: do I ask her out that night and risk seeming needy, or wait a few days and risk letting the fire die out? I pick the first and it was one of my best dates so far this year. Pushed hard for the bang but logistics were shit, so only got some hot makeout sessions.

My handsome game-aware wing shows me his phone sometimes and girls text him fucking essays, and he never have problems with flakes. My other wings have to deal with flakes just as much as I do.

I think there's no need to complicate it. Flake is the new rejection. If she likes you she wont flake. If she doesnt like you, she will. After all you mean nothing to her. Ive tried playing attrition war text game to get a girl out before, but the date is shitty.