I have been working on a couple of bartenders. One is a hard 8, and the other two are very nice 7's. I am using your techniques but no luck yet. I think I fucked up the 8 and the two 7's I am still working on.
One issue I have is I always try to escalate my girls physically with touch and getting into deeper rapport by escalating past the usual small talk with more interesting and deeper topics. Another part is just not acting like the needy chodes sitting around me.
Talk part seems to be working well and hooking all of them. But the touch is another issue since there is this giant fucking bar between us. Lol how do you get around this? Couple of things I have tried is touching them when they walk past me on the outside of the bar behind me. Or when they slide the drink to me I reach for it immediatly and touch her hand and make eye contact. This one is particular seems to work quite well. Sometimes I can see the reaction on their face.
Do you have any suggestions on how to escalate touch?
Also a question about long game on a bartender. Does this work? Or is there a window of time or number of visits when you have to close or the interaction goes stale and I start to look like a goofball. Or is long game a viable strategy?
One issue I have is I always try to escalate my girls physically with touch and getting into deeper rapport by escalating past the usual small talk with more interesting and deeper topics. Another part is just not acting like the needy chodes sitting around me.
Talk part seems to be working well and hooking all of them. But the touch is another issue since there is this giant fucking bar between us. Lol how do you get around this? Couple of things I have tried is touching them when they walk past me on the outside of the bar behind me. Or when they slide the drink to me I reach for it immediatly and touch her hand and make eye contact. This one is particular seems to work quite well. Sometimes I can see the reaction on their face.
Do you have any suggestions on how to escalate touch?
Also a question about long game on a bartender. Does this work? Or is there a window of time or number of visits when you have to close or the interaction goes stale and I start to look like a goofball. Or is long game a viable strategy?
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