Quote: (09-30-2011 09:40 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:
And she drops ...I have a boyfriend. We live together.
I've been noticing how girls qualify their relationship status at the moment of closing lately. As if, they need to let you know how serious it is, because otherwise, you might have a shot.
See also: "I'm married, I have a 4 y/o daughter." "I'm engaged, we're getting married next month." Etc. I have no conclusions for this, just find it interesting.
As far as post-rejection, I usually just ramp down the conversation rather than just cutting it off. Feels more natural, plus, you never know when you might see her again, so best to keep the cool vibe on.
Also, getting her on Facebook is a good fallback if she won't give her #. At least then you have a means of contact or monitoring her relationship status.