[JayJuanGee]

(03-18-2015 07:07 AM)artur jedi Wrote:  

Thanks for reply.

It all happens in Poland (Warsaw), in polish (translation made by me).

Just dance with me (and shut up) - I like that!

I agree with Eradicator in the sense that you do NOT really need to answer their questions when they are seeming to assume matters.

Frequently, I believe that answering those kinds questions will put you into a potential defensive position and into her frame... and you would likely prefer to be the one framing and keeping the tone how you would like it.


You could also put the question back onto her.... like, would you expect me to have a girlfriend? and you think that I should dance with one of the other girls? Which ones do you suggest?

I may also say: 1) I don't have any exclusivity arrangement at the moment. Then she may say. What do you mean? and just repeat the concept and ask her about her expectations regarding relationships. 2) I like to dance with a variety of girls, and you seem to be fairly interesting (and then you may say something interesting about her or you may decide to say something that is a bit more indirect and pick a very obviously unattractive girl and say, "I was kind of interested in that fat one over there, but I was a bit nervous to approach." Then proceed from there. If she happens to know the "fat one over there," then you will need to be prepared to respond to that by saying, "oh could you introduce me" and then play along and attempt to make the interaction fun... and attempt to create the impression "nothing phases me." hahahahaha