Quote: (09-23-2011 04:27 PM)Moma Wrote:
What would you do with your 9? What does a 9 entail to you? Would you cupcake her more? Because at this stage of the game, it's just about pumping and eventually dumping right? So I am actually interested..what would one do with a 9 that they wouldn't do with a 7? How would their behaviour differ from a 9 that it wouldn't from a 7?
I think 9's would just get different public treatment. As long as a lizard passes the boner test and meets a mid to high 6, I think guys would pretty much go off in that ass the same way they would with a 9.
The only difference with a 9 is that one wouldn't be ashamed to go to a public function with her in tow.
Am I onto something or am I totally off?
It's not totally about pumping and dumping; the pump and dump and short-term FWB situation is good, but so would an LTR with an attractive girl with a quality personality.
That's really the equalizer (for women) here; attractive girls can bitch and moan because they can't find a guy for any longer than a few weeks, when they're uninteresting, whiny people. Looks will get us on the hook, but lacking in quality...if the materia is less than fine, only a fool would stay on the hook.
Most guys game would actually come off tighter with the 7 than the 9 because he's appear more disinterested. A girl of lesser attractiveness would have to be that much cooler than a more attractive girl to have the same success in the relationship game. The sad fact is that once a girl i sat or above a certain threshold (widely acknowledged as 8), all she really needs to do is show up.
I think the point at which guys stop experiencing shame at being seen with a girl in public is 7, and 8-9 is where the guy starts having pride about being seen in public.