- Being more assertive
- Frame of the prize: instead of thinking "hot girl" -> "I want to fuck her", you think "she looks good" -> "she has a chance with me, let's evaluate her behaviour"
- Balancing escalation with non-neediness: by evaluating her (non-verbal) feedback
In general I would say: drop all micro PUA tactics like negs, DHV, (consciously doing) push-pull,…and focus on the macro scheme: being masculine.
- Frame of the prize: instead of thinking "hot girl" -> "I want to fuck her", you think "she looks good" -> "she has a chance with me, let's evaluate her behaviour"
- Balancing escalation with non-neediness: by evaluating her (non-verbal) feedback
In general I would say: drop all micro PUA tactics like negs, DHV, (consciously doing) push-pull,…and focus on the macro scheme: being masculine.
My guest post on SwoopTheWorld: Springbreak in Cancun