Getting married is similar to a job interview. If you walk in reeking of desperation because you're unemployed, broke, you speak softly, slouch, ect., your future boss is gonna run you over. You're a bitch from day one. Beta males get married out of desperation, and the women know it. They are simply providers and get used.
When you set yourself up successfully, your future wife will know you have options, even after marriage. She will continue to qualify to you. Just like in the workplace, if your boss knows you are constantly getting offers from competitors, he will continue handing out raises and promotions.
TL;DR
Get your shit together before getting married.
When you set yourself up successfully, your future wife will know you have options, even after marriage. She will continue to qualify to you. Just like in the workplace, if your boss knows you are constantly getting offers from competitors, he will continue handing out raises and promotions.
TL;DR
Get your shit together before getting married.