[Mr Finish]

I used to feel this way. When I was younger I would get sprung off girls and I can say with certainty there is nothing more unattractive to a woman than jealousy; it makes you someone you're not. It sounds like you need to date around, bang a few chicks, and be selfish as fuck the next few months. As my notch count grew, and I saw the true nature of women, I cared less and less, especially about losing them. A guy that's seen the sausage being made understands what he's getting into if he decides to get into a relationship (I believe LaidNYC said something to this effect). I hardly ever get jealous anymore because I see so many women as flawed; they're lucky to be with me. A girl I dropped recently called me "heartless", this isn't the case, I just have a criteria that she didn't meet.