My active social life is my game.
I've moved frequently in the last years, about once every six months on average. At the ripe age of 28, I'm finally settling down...if you can call committing three years to Beijing settling down.
It is hard to rebuild your boys, because in most places, most decent guys already have their group. Much easier to find a girlfriend.
It can be done, however, it takes a lot of work.
Agree.
But the personal social circle, while it gives you an alternative to letting a woman take over your life, can also add value that can help you get women.
Quote: (01-14-2015 04:24 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:I know what you are talking about.
Emphasis on social.
If you ever moved to a new location, it's relatively simple to get a new gf. But your boys, your circles, don't rebuild as easily.
I've moved frequently in the last years, about once every six months on average. At the ripe age of 28, I'm finally settling down...if you can call committing three years to Beijing settling down.
It is hard to rebuild your boys, because in most places, most decent guys already have their group. Much easier to find a girlfriend.
It can be done, however, it takes a lot of work.
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In the context of a relationship, a player can find himself getting more involved in her circles, friends, family, work, hobbies... Take it from me, this is less than optimal.
And putting your "alpha foot down" and not going, or forbidding her to go, or attempting to occupy all of her time is a recipe for disaster.
The opposite, an active social life is the key this particular problem.
So back to the question, do you currently have an active social life that does not involve game?
WIA
Agree.
But the personal social circle, while it gives you an alternative to letting a woman take over your life, can also add value that can help you get women.
I'm the King of Beijing!