Quote: (12-31-2014 12:41 AM)Enigma Wrote:
Other points from the last couple pages:
1. Push for the meet immediately. Once she sends a pic that you're satisfied with, get her number or tell her your location/where to meet you. Don't waste time with chit chat.
By the time you've "built comfort", she's not going to be the same level of horny as when she jumped on CL to search for random dick. She's going to rationalize what she's doing and slut shame herself.
Most of my hits came pretty soon after posting, and most girls will completely drop off the map after a couple hours to days of sending their message.
2. When I was in the US, I was probably getting a bang a week with this, if I actually stayed consistent with posting the ad. This will obviously depend on your location, as I think I had something of a "sweet spot" -- big enough that there are plenty of girls around, but still small enough that there isn't THAT much CL traffic.
3. It seems guys are still having success in the bigger cities, but something to consider is posting multiple ads. You'd probably want to vary the content in each, but there's nothing stopping you from posting 2, 3, 10 different ads at different times and refreshing in order, so you have posts staying on top. For example, post one at 6pm, 7pm, 8pm, and 9pm, that way any girl who checks during those peak hours will be able to find your post somewhere within the first couple pages.
Or maybe do 6pm and 8pm one day, then the same times the next day, that way you can refresh twice every evening and always have an ad at least relatively close to the top.
4. Spam and guys become pretty easy to spot after a while. They always have subtle tells in their message title and body that give them away.
CL has done a lot to cut down on the spam lately also. The catch before was the bots would get you to reply to their ad so they could mine your e-mail, but now CL keeps it completely hidden.
5. Regarding the guy that said some gay dude tried to catfish him into meeting at a hotel, I'm not sure why guys aren't setting up meets at their own apartment. I understand being wary, but what exactly is going to happen? Sure, CL can be full of loons, but you're probably a lot more likely to have a girl you met somewhere else and pumped & dumped give you issues than one of these CL whores.
It's a lot easier to get bangs this way, and it also deters stuff like in that story. Stick a knife between your mattress and box spring before the chick gets there, if you're that sketched out.
Obviously this doesn't apply to the married guys.
6. I wouldn't use the ad someone posted on the last page. That's way off from what I post. Even Vincent's ad is pretty different than I used to post in the US, but it's still good and is a better fit abroad because the girls don't have the same English levels or mindset.
7. Replying to ads is a waste of time.
1. For me, it's 50/50. Sometimes immediately and sometimes days or even a week later. One thing I've found is that resparking with a girl usually doesn't work.
2. Bang/week...that's good. I found there are tons of girls in the suburbs, especially near big cities.
3. Hmm, that's quite the method. If I post too frequently, though, CL's internal system will block me from posting for a few hours or a few days. I've also found that repeat ads have a short half-life, meaning that I'll stop getting responses to an ad that I have reposted 4-5 times. That's when I gotta come up with a new ad (guess girls don't like seeing an ad posted [and reposted] "27 days ago."
4. Yeah, don't bother responding to ads. I'll sometimes search "Kik" and get a girl's Kik that way.
5. Lol, I was at my brother's place and couldn't bring a sloot back.
6. Never tried abroad.
7. Absolutely agree. Kik'ing a girl who posted her username sometimes works out.
I've found that dick pics don't work well. Maybe girls feel too slutty messaging a dude with his falang hanging out. Doesn't mean they won't ask for a pic later though.