I'm going to be completely honest here, and it pains me as man to even admit it, but it didn't happen. I waited till about 11 and went to the gym. She texts me just as I get there and goes "Let me know if you still want me to come over..." to which I reply "at the gym, but yeah come over" She says "I have work at 3, when should I come over", me "Just come over right before work" her "what time do you want me there haha"......aannddd I didn't respond till about 2PM (takes her 20 to get to my place) so she essentially ran out of time. Idk If it's just normal to have girls consistently ask for confirmation, but I would have hoped she just would have showed up after getting the "yeah come over" (ASD? Plausible Deniability?). I guess this girl really needs me to lead her all the way to my zipper step-by-step. (again, wouldn't be surprised as most do).
I basically panicked for a couple of reasons. One, it hit me that my room/apartment isn't really a bachelor pad atmosphere (even after cleaning it thoroughly, and not that it matters to a great extent). Not putting too much emphasis on this but it just didn't help in creating the mood I wanted, or reinforcing my confidence. The real underlying issue is my confidence level in this certain situation. Like I said, I have never had a chick just come over to fuck without actually seeing her in the last 8 months. Usually it's always established beforehand. This time, while I was sure she was basically slapping me in the face with the texts telling me to blast her open, there was still some weird resistance with her consistently asking when to come over and if she should still come over etc. etc. (again, probably ASD or PD). Not to mention this would be the first time she would see me, or my place.
I told her I met a buddy and lost track of time at the gym. She said it happens, but from the following texts she didn't seem to lose interest (kept apologizing and saying "I wasn't trying to be mean, it's your day off after all" etc etc). I can almost tell though her "fantasy" of coming over to fuck a bad-boy (compared to her husband) was bruised a bit. I'd say this is me "flaking" and trying to push/pull her but I honestly just pussied out.
I did force myself to learn/take away something from this though. I went online and bought some more posters, a TV, and a couple of other things that will come in handy to getting chicks upstairs to my bedroom, and comfortable enough for me to position myself for the kill.
Sorry for the build-up fellas. One thing though, once I do get the bang (It's inevitable at this point) I'll update with how it went and what I actually did, as I feel like if you don't have the right tools/experience, getting a chick over to "hang out" and getting the bang before even taking her out is an area that isn't talked about much/some people struggle with (that's my weak spot at least)
Cheers and thanks for the input, it will be remembered from this point forward.
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R - Pussied out, told her I got stuck at the gym, learned from it.
I basically panicked for a couple of reasons. One, it hit me that my room/apartment isn't really a bachelor pad atmosphere (even after cleaning it thoroughly, and not that it matters to a great extent). Not putting too much emphasis on this but it just didn't help in creating the mood I wanted, or reinforcing my confidence. The real underlying issue is my confidence level in this certain situation. Like I said, I have never had a chick just come over to fuck without actually seeing her in the last 8 months. Usually it's always established beforehand. This time, while I was sure she was basically slapping me in the face with the texts telling me to blast her open, there was still some weird resistance with her consistently asking when to come over and if she should still come over etc. etc. (again, probably ASD or PD). Not to mention this would be the first time she would see me, or my place.
I told her I met a buddy and lost track of time at the gym. She said it happens, but from the following texts she didn't seem to lose interest (kept apologizing and saying "I wasn't trying to be mean, it's your day off after all" etc etc). I can almost tell though her "fantasy" of coming over to fuck a bad-boy (compared to her husband) was bruised a bit. I'd say this is me "flaking" and trying to push/pull her but I honestly just pussied out.
I did force myself to learn/take away something from this though. I went online and bought some more posters, a TV, and a couple of other things that will come in handy to getting chicks upstairs to my bedroom, and comfortable enough for me to position myself for the kill.
Sorry for the build-up fellas. One thing though, once I do get the bang (It's inevitable at this point) I'll update with how it went and what I actually did, as I feel like if you don't have the right tools/experience, getting a chick over to "hang out" and getting the bang before even taking her out is an area that isn't talked about much/some people struggle with (that's my weak spot at least)
Cheers and thanks for the input, it will be remembered from this point forward.
TL
R - Pussied out, told her I got stuck at the gym, learned from it.