@WIA - cannot doubt your logic there. Just a few things (for overall context)
Case 1 - agree with not creating a good impression first time around. It was when she called again to meet that it turned into this. As I said before I went in with an open mind to meet up, it wasn't until she inclined she wanted to meet BUT also wanted to keep it on her terms (picture the vibe of "why rush it's not like you're going anywhere") and I have to say it struck a nerve.
At no stage was it ultimatums from my end, standards yes. It was definitely a case of "these are the times I'm free, else no" and I can say I was a tad jaded at her behavior last time. It also struck a nerve that refusing to budge to suit her gave way to "you're a domineering control freak" as I put no obligation on her, I did however not relent ony own schedule.
Case 2 - yep I walked away from that one the minute she mocked me.
Case 3 - she's a single mum, and enough baggage to be borderline "take it or leave it" which is why I called her again to meet.
Yep I do have high standards, many reasons why however long story short I have more things outside of gaming that I am not too bugged when girls like the above mentioned decide to try and call the shots.
Case 1 - agree with not creating a good impression first time around. It was when she called again to meet that it turned into this. As I said before I went in with an open mind to meet up, it wasn't until she inclined she wanted to meet BUT also wanted to keep it on her terms (picture the vibe of "why rush it's not like you're going anywhere") and I have to say it struck a nerve.
At no stage was it ultimatums from my end, standards yes. It was definitely a case of "these are the times I'm free, else no" and I can say I was a tad jaded at her behavior last time. It also struck a nerve that refusing to budge to suit her gave way to "you're a domineering control freak" as I put no obligation on her, I did however not relent ony own schedule.
Case 2 - yep I walked away from that one the minute she mocked me.
Case 3 - she's a single mum, and enough baggage to be borderline "take it or leave it" which is why I called her again to meet.
Yep I do have high standards, many reasons why however long story short I have more things outside of gaming that I am not too bugged when girls like the above mentioned decide to try and call the shots.