Quote: (10-20-2014 10:21 PM)Excalibur Wrote:
Skip I feel you man.
I am Asian, went to an Ivy equivalent, make 6 figures. Back in Boston, just learned about game, was hitting my strides, dating cute/cool white girls. Then I moved to LA. Here girls don't give a rat's ass about you degree or you 6 figure salary. Unless you got a pad with a pool and a view on Hollywood hills, you ain't competing. Hollywood hotties are sniffing out the producers, directors, casting agents. I even got a used Porche convertible. Good for closing, but does nothing for the front game (obviously girls in the club don't see your car). Sure you don't need money if you got game, but then you are competing with wanna be actor Ryan Gosling look a likes who has zero fear of rejection and "acting skills".
I don't even know why a sophisticated guy like you want to date these girls in Vegas. I am not saying they are not worth dating. They may very well be a good girl friend for that Texas Hold'm poker champ, but you and her have nothing in common. If you just want to get laid, there are some fine ass semi-pros hangout outside of the clubs all the time. I never hooked up with them, but boy do it regret it. I call them semi pros cause they seek out decent looking guys with no game lol. They are young and not janky looking.
Either that or like other guys said, just spam approach the tourist. You probably won't get 8,9,10 though.
On the other note, WTF are you going to charity events making only 114K. I know brothers and Hispanics even Asian like you who did not come from money. Now that you got a bit of dough you think you gonna live like a millionaire. Downgrade that Caymen to an Audi. $100 for a simple dinner and a drink is still classy. Like LA, you don't have the bank roll to compete with the big playa.
The other route is to get into the night life industry, but why bother. Just to get laid with some hotties that you don't have a natural connection with. Invest 3 years in making contacts in the clubs etc. that may never yield any financial return. More likely the insiders will see that you have money and try to get you to invest in this and that and you'll end up like a retired NFL linebacker. Those guys always get the best tables in clubs costing like $10,000-$20,000.
You seem alright though. Might be fun to chill with you IRL and talk shop.
That's what i mean by the currency in each city is different. I hang with a coupla Harvard footballers and their game is literally I played football at Harvard ten years ago and they get laid from it on the EC.
I moved to Vegas because it was a fun place to hang out when on R&R. I now regret it. I am no nerd but I read the Economist and the Atlantic Monthly this am. In vegas they don;t even read Comso...they just look at the pictures.
I also moved here because I thought I could run for Lt. Governor or Congress and win....it an;t that easy. Nobody really cares about your resume here...just how much money you made serving 30 dollar bottles of greygoose for 600 at Hakasan.
A lot of shysters and hustlers here too. The first guy I met rented me a crib that he had not paid on for two years and after three months of being here the Sheriff comes and tells me I have 30 days to leave.
I dont really aim for a 9/10. I am not a 9/10. i just want a nice and respectable high maintenance 8. I also refuse to be with a fatty or flake.
What's your strategy in LA?