[Garzero]

(10-06-2014 04:09 PM)rytech Wrote:  

DAY 46 - 06/10/2014

Another D2, another dead lead.

She had offered to pay for her half, and as we were walking towards the bridge I (probably foolishly, in retrospect) made an off-hand comment: "It was cool of you to pay for yours. Not a lot of girls do that."

To which she responds, with a bit of a shocked look on her face, "Wait ... is this a date, or are we just hanging out together?"

At this point I'm thinking, I can't believe this.

Man, she was playing. This is what almost all the girls do when they go on a date with a guy they don't consider their boyfriend yet: if you dare to simply hint at the fact that something is going on between the two of you, she will strongly deny it.
A girl will NEVER verbally admit she is on a date with you unless there has been AT LEAST a serious and passionate make-out before and the passion is continuing for the whole date.

What I would have done is:
she: "wait: is this a date or we are hanging out?"
me: (never give direct answer) "why you say so?" or "what do you mean?" (you put her in a difficult position, 'cause now she has to explain. Basically you turn the table)
she: "because this and that, bla bla"
me: "I said it just to say something" (you show you don't give a fuck.) Now she feels bad and wants to be reassured she is attractive. You will feel strange vibes in the air: that's the moment. You push her onto the wall and kiss her. There will be little or no resistance.