Quote: (10-03-2014 07:07 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:
I thought this thread was going to be about responding to the female saying it to you.
Never tell a girl you love her first. Even if you do. Never. That's not even a theory, thats law. As watertight as saying that 2+2 = 4.
I think the point is trolling their emotions by seeing if they respond with deeper attachment, but you yourself are detached enough to use it as a lever. The "never say" holds true if you actually feel it.
I can see this backfiring because I know that when women hear a guy say "I love you" before she does, its the ultimate turn off for a women. Unless, the man goads her into it.
I've always had this little system myself for getting the girl to say I love you first within 30 days;
- Talk very little about yourself, act like your hiding details about who you are, what you do, etc etc. Be secretive and protective.
- Never go back to your place, always be at her place.
- Be a challenge to her. Make her hunt you down. Its really pretty easy just by being aloof, private and closed off about details about who you are, and plainly, JUST TALK LESS.
- Have superior self confidence, never complain, always be light and fun.
- Appear to agree on everything. Dont challenge her beliefs. Dont outright agree with her, but dont disagree with her purposely to be right for the sake of it. You sort of have to be egoless, or your ego staring at the horizon farther than the current conversation.
- Good sex.
- Dont call her back a few days. Yes, its the typical thing, but it works.
- Dont say it back.
Usually if I get a girl to tell me she loves me she wants to have my children. I have done this probably a dozen or so times. Usually these girls become serious gf's, if I have the patience and time to devote to her. When a girl tells me she loves me first, I know she actually means it. I have to be careful of this because it works, and leads to months/years of daily sex, and possible babies.