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This made the rounds on the internet yesterday; it's the story of a young lady who decided she was actually raped when the guy didn't follow-up with her after the sex:

https://medium.com/matter/the-incident-4eed13d54b99

This article is well over 2,500 words long. For an article so long, it goes in to far too much detail of what a teacher said about her in high school and far too little detail about what happened the night when she was supposedly raped:

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Logistically speaking, I guess it all started when I drank with friends and went to a big party in short shorts and a crop top because one of those friends decided the already skimpy shirt I was wearing wasn’t skimpy enough. So she cut half of it off. And I let her. Then I went home with this guy I had liked all summer. And he wanted me. And I guess I wanted him in a different way. I wanted him to like me, which may have been hard because he never knew me. I wanted him to be a good guy, who was good to me, and I’m really not sure what he wanted, because it certainly wasn’t me.

For the record, I don’t really go home with guys on Saturday nights.

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The next morning, we sat on the couch with his roommate and the girl he had brought home the night before. They smoked weed...

[I won't bore you with paragraph after paragraph about how she was disappointed that this was her last real contact with the guy. She finally gets around to describing the night again]

I told him to stop.

For a while, it was “the incident.” Now it’s krape. Kind of rape. That’s what I call it because nobody told me what to call it. I barely told anybody that it had happened, so maybe that’s on me. Legally speaking, it was entirely rape.

It sounds like this young lady wasn't taught the basics of sexual morality:

• Don't wear a short skimpy skirt in a public place unless you want to have sex with near-strangers.
• Ladies need to watch their drinking when they're around men.
• Don't go home with a guy unless you intend to have sex with him.
• Don't have sex with a guy unless you know he is willing to start a relationship with you -- or if you are aware of the emotional consequences and dangers of no-strings-attached casual sex.
• Don't develop feelings for a guy who smokes a bunch of weed and is fucking a lot of different girls.
• Better yet, don't have sex with anyone you're not willing to marry and have kids with.
  

I'm sure there were a lot of guys out there who would have been willing to commit to a relationship with this young lady. Instead of wasting so much time obsessing over this pot smoking loser, she should have looked for someone who wants a real relationship. This would make her a lot happier, and she would not feel the need to retroactively call a consensual sexual encounter "rape".