Quote: (08-13-2014 11:31 PM)cowboy Wrote:
I have posted on this subject before as it is popular topic given the the quality of Ukrainian girls. I have known about 5 different guys that married girls from the Ukraine. Of those 5 individuals, 4 men are still married. However, these guys are pretty alpha, well established financially, and I confirmed that 1 guy protected his assets through a prenuptial agreement. Although I would not be surprised if all of them did given the U.S. court system. These guys were fit, average to good looking for their age, intelligent, and successful. I think some of the success could be that they brought these girls back to a good middle America suburban life instead of going back to major money cities (Los Angeles, etc.). What I am trying to say is these guys would be a catch for an American woman and would be a great catch for a girl coming from the Ukraine. They just seem tired of American dating games and did something different. However, women wherever they are from are always looking for an upgrade if it's possible.
The funny thing is the guy that got burned lived in Texas. I remember jimukr104's story about the Texas guy who married a Ukrainian with a kid, she became involved in the Russian community, and basically was schooled on how to exploit him. The main difference was this woman didn't have a kid, however the same thing happened. The nearby Russian community embraced her and he was in trouble. The Russian/Ukrainian community in Texas has that reputation (or at least that's what I have heard), but hell the life expectancy of a domestic Dallas Metroplex marriage isn't that good either.
The men that go over with a Beta attitude and are love struck before they even meet a girl will get played. The Ukrainian girl will lose all respect for him because she is used to a more alpha type Ukrainian guy. However, as stated above guys that are more cautious, come from that culture or understand it have a chance of success (IMO). Supposedly, the statistics for these marriages (marriage success) are higher than domestic marriages which seems crazy due to the hotness of these girls marrying average joes.
Cowboy: I largely agree with your description of the dynamics at play in these kinds of situations, and it may be helpful for guys to take some preventative asset preservation measures... but some of those prenuptial terms may NOT hold.. and there still can be some risks regarding asset preservation...
Can you describe how long approximately the five different guys had been married to UA chicks or in relationships with them? How long have the chicks been in the USA and still "going well"?