Quote: (07-17-2009 01:56 PM)kerouac Wrote:
Yeah, I'm getting back into the Game full steam and I had to take some time off from keyboard jockeying and get myself out there.
Some things I noticed:
1) KISS --> Keep it simple, stupid.
a) Chill/Relax/Be Happy
b) Fix your internal state if it needs to be fixed
c) Get out of your shell
Basically, I noticed during my "downtime" that my approaches were S.H.I.T. That's not an acronym for anything, just shit. Anyway, I was approaching girls with the mentality of trying to get something out of them. Wrong move. It never works out this way. Best way, or at least the way that's working best now, is to enjoy the moment. When I talk to a girl now, it's all about the flirt. It isn't about me wishing to jump from A -> Pussy. It's about jumping through little hurdles with them and having fun. Basically I'm shit testing girls, like they shit test chumps. It's all good, baby baby.
2) The idea of "alpha male" has way too much emphasis in the community. Or at least that's the impression I get because of Roissy's blog. Not sure.
a) First, people get way too into minute details about what is and what isn't alpha. In my opinion, it is ridiculous. Instead of trying to fit whatever trait into the word alpha in order to keep it alive, just list traits. KISS.
b) Good traits: Easy going, easy to smile, easy to ROWR, easy to get really comfortable with a girl's body
3) To go from A -> P(ussy), the goal is to live on the boundary. She knows you like/love/adore sex, but why is it you are pursuing it in this way? Why aren't you sweating over her? Why aren't you leaning in? Why aren't you an average frustrated chump? Also, why are you purposefully going against the game by saying things that are meant to fuck up your game on purpose, just to show that you could really care less about fucking her, although deep down inside there would be nothing better right now than to be deep inside of her. (sorry for the erotic lit here)
4) One thing that I had caressed up, because of a weird internal state, was eye contact and relaxed body state. Man, once that stuff got fixed, things are so much different. Body Language is god for emotional creatures. Girls can be like little pets. If you watch the dog trainer show on the animal channel you can see it. When they are bad, you pull the chain, but when they are good you give them a cookie; they respond to emotional cues.
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