Quote: (03-04-2014 04:14 AM)Kieran Wrote:
Most Toms are vile I hate them. I've seen them overstep the mark with people's girlfriends a few times too.
Interestingly, a Thai friend of mine told me that the Dees don't return the favour sexually in a lot of cases. It's all the Tom.
In US slang, that's a "pillow princess" - she wants to receive but not give.
I was googling tom-dee and the first hit was an article claiming that hardcore Toms won't even disrobe so they don't shatter the illusion of not being male. That actually really lends itself to hard core S&M, where the guy never gets fully naked. It's all a power trip with the girl surrendering completely and the guy being aloof.